Communicating Effectively

COMMUNICATING EFFECTIVELY:
Facilitator’s Guide (All)

1Before You Begin

Prepare the following items prior to beginning the meeting:

  • Flip chart, markers, and flip chart stand
  • Set up video projection for the C1 ― Customers First Series Video: Communicating Effectively.
  • Print a Participant Worksheet for each participant.

2Introduce the Topic

  • Flipchart the following:

Communication

Nonverbal= 93% of The Message
(Body Language, Tone of Voice,
Inflection)

Verbal= 7% of The Message
(Words Actually Spoken)

Things to Discuss

  • James Borg, a famous communication researcher and the author of the world’s best-selling book on persuasion (Persuasion: The Art of Influencing People) states that this is true.
  • Who agrees with this?
  • Who does not agree with this?
  • Why?

3Video: Communicating Effectively

Show the video.

4Activity

  • Divide the participants into groups of three.
  • Each person should select one of the three statements in their worksheets: “I am really frustrated that you are late!”; “I am so happy that you are on time!”; “I am really angry that you ate the rest of my food!”
  • Groups should take turns doing the following:
  • Communicate their statement to someone else in their group using only body language (i.e., using no words). The rest of the group should try to guess what the statement is.
  • Communicate their statement both verbally and nonverbally, using body language and tone of voice/inflection that matches the intended message.
  • Communicate their statement verbally and nonverbally again; however, this time, they should use body language and tone of voice/inflection that does NOT match the intended message.
  • Groups should then discuss how changing body language and tone of voice/inflection can either reinforce or distract from a person’s intended message.

5Reinforcement

Encourage participants to focus on noticing others’ body language and tone of voice/inflection this week and responding appropriately with their own nonverbal communication.Follow up in your individual coaching sessions to identify any change that participants have observed.

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