Ministry Process for Mainland Chinese in America
"FIRST CONTACT"Meet Mainland Chinese as a Friendship / Language Partner
OR
in a way-of-life setting /
- Introduce yourself. Write or spell your name.
- Ask for friend’s name. Have him/her write it down or spell it. Write it down phonetically so that you can remember how to pronounce it.
- Ask general questions:
* Tell me about your family…
* So far, how do you feel about your life in America?
- Exchange phone numbers and email addresses.
- Begin to pray for your friend(s).
"RAPPORT & TRUST"
Certain activities may help you to establish a friendship
In China, Relationships are everything /
- Meals are great--especially in your home. Be careful of buying meals at restaurants, since your friends may feel required to return the favor.
- Sports activities help to quickly build friendship and trust--ping pong, volleyball, badminton, soccer, basketball, “instructional touch football.” Other “language-easy” activities include baking/cooking, concerts and certain games.
- Day trips or overnight trips give you lots of time with your friends in interesting situations, helping you to build deeper friendships.
- Best times to meet MC students: weekends, weekday lunch, late afternoon. Confirm details by email.
"TRANSITION TO SPIRITUAL"
In conversation,
speak freely and naturally about spiritual things.
Expose your faith do not impose it /
- Pray.
- Expect it to be easy to mention God, church, the Bible. Most Chinese are interested in your faith. But don't "preach" or make this your only topic.
- Realize that he/she may not understand even basic spiritual terms (E.g. "Christian", "New Testament," "saved").
- Ask questions to find out prior knowledge and whether he/she has spiritual interest:
* Have you had any contact with other religions?
* Have you ever read the Bible? Do you know the
basic message of the Bible?
"THE GOSPEL"
Begin to share
the Good News /
- Share how you came to Christ and what He has done in your life. Again, be sure to explain in "every-day" English, not "Christianese."
- Ask if he/she would like to know the basic ideas of the Christian faith. If so, use the bilingual Four Spiritual Laws to explain.
- Have literature available which will be attractive and clear to a Chinese (Song of a Wanderer, bilingual New Testament, JESUS video in Mandarin). See thewebsite or contact us for help.
"CONTINUE IN YOUR FRIENDSHIP”
Let them “see” what being a follower of Jesus really lives like
Give them time
Do not push /
- Sharing the gospel with a Mainland Chinese is not a "one-time" deal. They will have even more questions to resolve than some Americans, including the existence of God.
- Continue to include your friend in your life and activities.
- Ask if he/she has questions from previous conversations or from materials you gave to read.
- Consider doing an evangelistic Bible study. Our favorite study, Foundations for Faith.
- If your friend moves to a different country or city, contact us for a referral in that location. ()
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"FOLLOW-UP"
Help a new believer to grow /
- If your friend trusts Christ, contact C.O.M. and use the 6 week follow up study on the website.
- Encourage him/her to attend church.Also, if possible involve him/her in a our Sunday night or Friday night group for Mainland Chinese.
- Plan to invite him/her to a discipleship conference (Mem. Day; Christmas; Labor day).
China Outreach Ministries
U. of Mich. C.O.M. staff
Brent Hoover
Mary Degener
Questions for Shane Wang--New Life’s China ministry consultant: 972-0617