CHAPTER REVIEW WORKSHEET #3 NAME: ______

CHAPTER 7- LOVE AND COMMUNICATION IN INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS

1. What is the difference between passionate and companionate love?

2. What are the three components of Sternberg’s triangular theory of love?

______, ______, ______

What does Sternberg call the fullest kind of love – with all three components present?

______

3. Name 4 factors that appear to play a role in determining with whom we fall in love.

4. What is attachment? List and briefly describe the 3 attachment styles:

5. Do men and women view sex and love differently? Briefly Discuss.

6. Do heterosexuals and lesbians and gay men view sex and love differently? Briefly Discuss

7. How does jealousy affect a relationship?

8. Which of the characteristics discussed in the book as ingredients for a lasing relationship do you think are most important? Why?

9. Which of the strategies for talking about sex with a partner that are listed in the book do you think would be most interesting and helpful? Why?

CHAPTER 8 – SEXUAL BEHAVIORS

1. What are the functions of sexual fantasy?

2. How are men’s and women’s sexual fantasies different?

3. What are the purposes of masturbation:

Fill in the term for each definition:

4. An expression of sexuality where a person does not engage in sexual behavior ______

5. Oral stimulation of the penis ______

6. Oral stimulation of the vulva ______

7. Oral stimulation of the anus ______

8. If a man wanted his ejaculate to have a more pleasant taste, what could he do?

True or False:

9.____Women as well as men may experience nocturnal orgasm.

10.____Although some sexual fantasy is generally considered healthy, most sexual fantasy is considered to be indicative of poor relationships or other sexual problems.

11. ______One study revealed that married women who masturbated to orgasm had greater marital and sexual satisfaction than women who did not masturbate

12.___HIV cannot be transmitted through oral sex.

13. ___Anal intercourse is the least common sexual behavior used by gay men

14. The favorite intercourse position for college men is ______

The favorite intercourse position for college women is ______

15. What is tantric sex?

CHAPTER 9 – SEXUAL ORIENTATIONS

What do the letters stand for in the following abbreviation:

L ______

G______

B______

T______

Q______

Terms Related to Sexual Orientation

Use the following terms to complete the definitions below:

Ally Gender Non-conformity Questioning

Asexual Heterosexism Passing

Bisexual Homophobia Sexual Fluidity

Coming out Lesbian Sexual Orientation

Gay Queer

1. This is the direction of a person’s sexual drives, desires and fantasies – who they are attracted to ______

2. Not conforming to stereotypical masculine and feminine behaviors______

3. Term for a female who is attracted sexually and emotionally to some other females______

4. Term for a male who is attracted sexually and emotionally to some other males ______

5. Term for a person who is attracted sexually and emotionally to some males and some females ______

6. Term for a person who lacks sexual attraction to either sex ______

7. People who are in the process of figuring out their sexual orientation or gender identity ______

8. Once a negative term, now used as a positive way to describe people of alternate sexual orientations

______

9. Term for a non-LGBT person who stands up for the rights of LGBT people ______

10. Variability in same-sex and other-sex attraction and involvement at different times and in different situations throughout the life span ______

11. A fear or hatred of homosexuality, especially in others, but also in oneself ______

12. Beliefs that stigmatize and put down any behaviors, identities, relationships and communities that are not heterosexual ______

13. The process of becoming aware of and disclosing one’s identity as an LGBT person ______

14. Presenting a false image of being heterosexual . ______

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15. What determines sexual orientation?

16. How is Gender nonconformity related to sexual orientation?

17. What event in the 1960s is considered to be a turning point in the Gay Rights movement?

18. What symbol did the Nazis force homosexuals to wear on their clothing?

True or False

19.___More men than women are bisexual.

20.___There have been numerous studies that have indicated a typical family pattern among homosexual clients: most commonly, an authoritarian, domineering father, and a passive and detached mother.

21.___Recent research indicates that gay men tend to have more older brothers than heterosexual men.

22.___The Miliatary’s Don’t Ask/Don’t Tell Policy is supported by the majority of Americans

23.___Recent research has demonstrated that homosexuals are more likely than heterosexuals to be left-handed.

24.___ In ancient Greece, homosexual relationships between men were considered superior to heterosexual relationships on an intellectual and spiritual level