Unconscious Childhood Message It S Not OK to Make Mistakes

ONE

need…to be perfect

passion…anger

fixation…resentment

unconscious childhood message…It’s not OK to make mistakes

lost childhood message…you are good

compulsion or wake-up call…feeling a sense of personal obligation to fix everything themselves

red flag fear…that their ideals are actually wrong and counterproductive

spiritual jump start…value-judging, condemning self and others

triad…doing->feeling->thinking

wings…9 and 2

stress…4, get moody, depressed, irrational

security…7, spontaneous, joyful

dominant center…gut, doing

support center…feeling

repressed center…head, thinking

I want peace, but I settle for order

animal…terrier, ant, bee

country…Switzerland

time…immediate

energy source…perfecting things

TWO

need…to be needed

passion…pride

fixation…flattery

unconscious childhood message

lost childhood message…you are wanted

compulsion or wake-up call…believing you must go out to others to win them over

red flag fear…that you are driving friends and loved ones away

spiritual jump start…giving your value away to others

triad…feeling->doing->thinking

wings…1 and 3

stress…8, aggressive, dominating, rage

security…4, self-nurturing and emotionally aware

dominant center…feeling

support center…doing

repressed center…thinking

I want to be loved for inner self, but I settle for appreciation

animal…pelican, Lassie

country…Italy

time orientation…future

energy source…connecting with other people

THREE

need…to succeed

passion…deceit

unconscious childhood message…it’s not OK to have your own feelings and identity

lost childhood message…you are loved for yourself

compulsion or wake-up call…beginning to drive yourself for status and attention

red flag fear…that you are failing, that your claims are empty and fraudulent

spiritual jump start…trying to be other than who you authentically are

triad…feeling->thinking or doing->feeling

wings…2 and 4

stress…9, apathetic, disengaged

security…6…cooperative and committed, share spotlight

dominant center…feeling

support center…thinking/doing

repressed center…feeling

I want to be loved for who I am, but I settle for image

animal…peacock, chameleon

country…USA

time orientation…future

energy source…succeeding

FOUR

need…to be special

passion…envy

fixation…melancholy

unconscious childhood message…it’s not OK to be too functional or too happy

lost childhood message…you are seen for who you are

compulsion or wake-up call…holding onto and intensifying feelings through the imagination

red flag fear…that they are ruining their lives and wasting opportunities

spiritual jump start…making negative comparisons

triad…feeling->thinking->doing

wings…3 and 5

stress…2, over-involved, clinging

security…1, objective, authoritative, principled

dominant center…feeling

support center…thinking

repressed center…doing

I want love in the form of a perfect relationship, but I settle for deserving a perfect relationship

animal…housecat, mourning dove

country…France

time orientation…past

energy source…emotional embellishing

FIVE

need…to perceive

passion…avarice

fixation…stinginess

unconscious childhood message…it’s not OK to be too comfortable in the world

lost childhood message…your needs are not a problem

compulsion or wake-up call…withdrawing from reality into concepts and mental worlds

red flag fear…that they are never going to find a place in the world or with people

spiritual jump start…over-interpret

ting your experience

triad…thinking->feeling->doing

wings…4 and 6

stress…scattered, hyperactive

security…8, self-confident, decisive, limiting

dominant center…head, thinking

support center…feeling

repressed center…gut, doing

I want to be rich, but I settle for what I can get in my head

animal…hamster

country…Scotland

time orientation…past

energy source…gathering information

SIX

need…to be safe

passion…fear

fixation…cowardice

unconscious childhood message…it’s not OK to trust yourself

lost childhood message…you are safe

compulsion or wake-up call…becoming dependent on something or someone outside the self for guidance

red flag fear…that you own actions have harmed your security

spiritual jump start…becoming dependent on something outside yourself for support

triad…thinking->doing/feeling->thinking

wings…5 and 7

stress…3, competitive, arrogant

security…9, relaxed, optimistic

dominant center…thinking

support center…doing, feeling

repressed center…thinking

I want faith, to live without fear, but I settle for security

animal…wolf, meerkat, lemming

country…Germany

time orientation…future

energy source…question and make a plan for what might happen

SEVEN

need…to avoid pain

passion…gluttony

unconscious childhood message…it’s not OK to depend on anyone else for anything

lost childhood message…you will be taken care of

compulsion or wake-up call…feeling that something better is somewhere else

red flag fear…that your own actions have brought you pain and unhappiness

spiritual jump start…anticipating what you are going to do next

triad…thinking->doing->feeling

wings…6 and 8

stress..1, perfectionistic, critical

security…5, focused, fascinated

dominant center…thinking

support center…doing

repressed center…feeling

I want satisfaction, enough, but I settle for more

animal…golden retriever, otter

Country…Ireland, Brazil

time orientation…future

energy source…anticipating

EIGHT

need…to be against

passion…lust

fixation…vengeance

unconscious childhood message…it’s not OK to be vulnerable; you can’t trust everybody

lost childhood message…you will not be betrayed

compulsion or wake-up call…feeling you must push and struggle to make things happen

red flag fear…that others are turning against you and will retaliate

spiritual jump start…trying to force or control your life

triad…gut/doing->thinking->feeling

wings…7 and 9

stress…5, secretive, fearful, greedy

security…2, caring, open-hearted

dominant center…doing

support center…thinking

repressed center…feeling

I want justice, but I settle for revenge

animal…tiger, bull

country…Spain

time orientation…future

energy source…leading a group from point A to point B

NINE

need…to avoid

passion…sloth

unconscious childhood message…it’s not OK to assert yourself

lost childhood message…your presence matters

compulsion or wake-up call…outwardly accommodating yourself to others

red flag fear…that you will be forced by reality to deal with your problems

spiritual jump start…resisting being affected by your experiences

triad…doing->thinking/feeling->doing

wings…8 and 1

stress…6, anxious, worried

security…3, energetic, self-developing, stronger identity

dominant center…doing

support center…thinking/feeling

repressed center…doing

I want harmony and unity but I settle for sleep to true self and desires

animal…sloth, dolphin, elephant

country…Mexico

time orientation…past

energy source…remaining unaffected by what is going on