SAFEGUARDING
HANDBOOK
includingPolicyandGuidelines
Team Churches
Date:June2014
Thisversionreplacesandsupersedesallpreviousversions.FordetailsofchangespleaseseeAppendix1.
Contents:
Introduction / Page3Referenceto‘TheDioceseofSalisburySafeguardingandGoodPracticeGuidelines(May 2013)’ / Page3
Using the “Clarendon Team Safeguarding Handbook(includingPolicyandGuidelines)” / Page4
OverallSafeguardingAimsofThe Clarendon Team Churches / Page4
FormsandDocumentation / Page4
StatementofIntent / Page5
ClarificationofTerms / Page5
SafeguardingPolicyforThe Clarendon Team / Page6
Guideline 1 – Adopt a Policy on Safeguarding the welfare ofchildren,youngpeopleandvulnerableadults / Page10
Guideline2-Planyourworksoastominimisesituationswhere / Page10
abusemayoccur
- Guidelinesforallworkers
- Additionalguidelinesforgroupleaders
- Goodpracticewithcolleagues
- Touch
- Money/gifts
- Recruitment
- DataProtection
- GeneralSafetyCheckList
- RecommendedRatios
- TransportingchildrenonbehalfoftheChurch
- E-safety
Guideline3–Introduceasystemwherebyvulnerablepeoplemaytalktoanindependentperson / Page19
Guideline4–Usesupervisionasameansofsafeguardingchildren,youngpeopleandvulnerableadults / Page19
Guideline5–Agreeandissueguidelinesforaprocedureifabuseissuspectedordisclosed / Page20
Guideline6–SexOffenderswithinthecongregation / Page23
Guideline7-OtherGroupsandtheiruseofchurchpremises / Page24
Guideline8–Insurance / Page26
APPENDICES
Appendix1–PolicyStatementReview / Page27
Appendix2–FormsandDocumentation / Page28
Appendix3–InformationAboutTheSexualAbuseOfChildren / Page29
Introduction
The Clarendon Teamconsists of six parishes and ten churches.
The Clarendon TeamhasagreedtoworkundertheguidelinesoftheAnglicanChurchforSafeguardingissuesandhencetheChurch’sSafeguardingPolicyandGuidelineshavebeendevelopedinconjunctionwiththeSalisburyDioceseSafeguardingandGoodPracticeGuidelinesMay 2013.
Forinformationonly,copiesofthecurrentSafeguardingPoliciesforthe TeamiscontainedintheClarendon TeamManual;heldintheTeam office.
TheDioceseofSalisburySafeguardingandGoodPracticeGuidelines(November2011)
Theguidelinesstatethat“TheDioceseiscommittedto:
- Thecare,nurtureof,andrespectfulpastoralministrywithallchildrenandalladults.
- Thesafeguardingandprotectionofallchildren,youngpeopleandadultswhentheyarevulnerable.
- Theestablishingofsafe,caringcommunitieswhichprovidealovingenvironmentwherethereisacultureof‘informedvigilance’astothedangersofabuse.
Tothisend:
- Wewillcarefullyselect,supportandtrainallthosewithanyresponsibility withinthechurch,inlinewithSaferRecruitmentprinciples,includingtheuseofcriminalrecordsdisclosuresandregistration/membershipoftherelevantvettingandbarringschemes.
- Wewillrespondwithoutdelaytoeverycomplaintmade,thatanyadult,childoryoungpersonmayhavebeenharmed,cooperatingwiththepoliceandlocalauthorityinanyinvestigation.
- Wewillseektoofferinformedpastoralcareandsupporttoanyonewhohassufferedabuse,developingwiththemanappropriateministrythatrecognisestheimportanceofunderstandingtheneedsofthosewhohavebeenabused,includingtheirfeelingsofalienationand/orisolation.
- Wewillseektoprotectsurvivorsofsexualabusefromthepossibilityoffurtherharmandabuse.
- Wewillseektochallengeanyabuseofpower,especiallybyanyoneinapositionoftrust.
- Wewillseektoofferpastoralcareandsupport,includingsupervisionandreferraltotheappropriateauthoritiestoanymemberofourchurchcommunityknowntohaveoffendedagainstachild,youngpersonorvulnerableadult.
- Inalltheseprincipleswewillfollowlegislation,guidanceandrecognizedgoodpractice.”
Usingthe“The Clarendon TeamSafeguardingHandbook(includingPolicyandGuidelines)”
Thishandbookhasbeencreatedtosupport‘TheDioceseofSalisburySafeguardingandGoodPracticeGuidelines(November2011)’.Thishandbookshouldbereadinconjunctionwiththoseguidelines.
OverallSafeguardingAimsofThe Clarendon Team
OurChurchesholdatrustedpositioninthecommunity.TosupportthistheChurcheswilladheretothePolicy,Guidelinesandgoodpracticeasoutlinedinthisdocument.ThiswillensurebestpracticebyallwhoworkwithChildren,YoungPeopleandVulnerableadults,aswellastheMinistersandLeadershipTeamandthattheyknowhowto:
- Protectthemfromabuse.
- Actresponsiblyifabuseisdiscoveredordisclosed;
- Worksafely,promotingthewellbeingofall.
Inordertoachievetheseaimswehaveadopted:
- APolicyStatement
- Guidelineswhicharetobeappliedinourchurchsetting
- Formsanddocumentation
FormsandDocumentation
Allformsanddocumentationreferredtointhishandbook(andlistedinAppendix2ofthishandbook)arecontainedintheappendicesinthePoliciesfolder,whichisheldintheTeam Office.
StatementofIntent
ApolicyonSafeguardingChildren,YoungPeopleandVulnerableAdults–hasbeenformallyadoptedbytheTeam Council.Astatementthatwehaveadoptedthepolicyshouldappearonallinformationissuedaboutworkwithchildren,youngpeopleandvulnerableadults.
ClarificationofTerms
ACHILDorYOUNGPERSON,undertheChildrenAct1989,isanyoneundertheageof18.
AWORKERisanyonewhoisengagedinChildren’s,Youngpeople’sworkorworkswithvulnerableadultsonbehalfoftheChurch.
ALEADERisanyonewhohasasupervisory,organisationalordecisionmakingrole.PSRreferstotheParishSafeguardingRepresentative.
WorkersandLeadersmaybeinanygroupbelongingtotheChurch.Whereeitherchildrenoryoungpeoplearementionedbothareintended.
Safeguarding Policy forThe Clarendon Team
ThispolicywasagreedattheTeamCouncilheldon
.....24th June 2015 ......
TheChurchofEngland,alongwiththewholeChristiancommunity,believeseachpersonhasavalueanddignitywhichcomesdirectlyfromGod’screationofmaleandfemaleinGod’sownimageandlikeness.ChristiansseethisasfulfilledbyGod’sre-creationofusinChrist.Amongotherthings,thisimpliesadutytovalueallpeopleasbearingtheimageofGodandthereforetoprotectthemfromharm.
The Clarendon Teamiscommittedtothesafeguardingandprotectionofallandaffirmsthattheneedsofchildrenorofpeoplewhentheyarevulnerableareparamount.
The Clarendon Teamrecognisesthatnoneofusisinvulnerablebutthatthereisaparticularcareforthosewhosevulnerabilityisincreasedbysituations,bydisabilitiesorbyreductionincapacities.Itisrecognisedthatthisincreasedvulnerabilitymaybetemporaryorpermanentandmaybevisibleorinvisible,butthatitdoesnotdiminishourhumanityandseekstoaffirmthegiftsandgracesofallGod’speople.
Thispolicyaddressesthesafeguardingofindividuals.ItisintendedtosupporttheChurchinbeingasafesupportiveandcaringcommunityforchildren,youngpeople,vulnerableadults,forsurvivorsofabuse,forcommunitiesandforthoseaffectedbyabuse.
The Churches of the Clarendon Teamrecognisetheseriousissueoftheabuseofchildrenandvulnerableadultsandrecognisethatthismaytaketheformofphysical,emotional,sexual,financial,spiritualorinstitutionalabuseorneglect.Itacknowledgestheeffectsthesemayhaveonpeopleandtheirdevelopmentincludingspiritualandreligious development.Itacceptsitsresponsibilityforensuringthatallpeoplearesafeinitscareandthattheirdignityandrighttobeheardismaintained.Itacceptsitsresponsibilitytosupport,listentoandworkforhealingwithsurvivors,offenders,communitiesandthosewhocareaboutthem.IttakesseriouslytheissuesofpromotionofwelfaresothateachofuscanreachourfullpotentialinGod’sgrace.
The Churches of the Clarendon Teamcommitsthemselvestorespondwithoutdelaytoanyallegationorcauseforconcernthatachildorvulnerableadultmayhavebeenharmed,whetherinthechurchorinanothercontext.Itcommitsitselftochallengetheabuseofpowerofanyoneinapositionoftrust.
The Churches of the Clarendon Teamcommitsthemselvestotheprovisionofsupport,adviceandtrainingforlayandordainedpeoplethatwillensurepeopleareclearandconfidentabouttheirrolesandresponsibilitiesinsafeguardingandpromotingthewelfareofchildrenandadultswhomaybevulnerable.
The Clarendon Teamaffirmsandgivesthanksfortheworkofthosewhoareworkerswithchildrenandvulnerableadultsandacknowledgesthesharedresponsibilityofallofusforsafeguardingchildrenandvulnerableadultswhoareonourpremises.
The Clarendon Teamappoints ParishSafeguardingRepresentatives for each parishandsupportsthemin theirrolewhichisto:
i)supportandadvisetheministerandthelay workersinfulfillingtheirroles
ii)provideapointofreferencetoadviseonsafeguardingissues
iii)promotesafeguardingbestpracticewithinthelocalchurch.
a)Purpose
Thepurposesofthissafeguardingpolicyaretoensureproceduresareinplaceandpeopleareclearabouttheirrolesandresponsibilitiesregardingchildrenandvulnerableadultsinourcareandusingourpremises.Tobereadinconjunctionwith‘TheDioceseofSalisburySafeguardingandGoodPracticeGuidelines(May 2013)
b)GoodPractice
Webelievegoodpracticemeansthat:
i)Allpeoplearetreatedwithrespectanddignity.
ii)ThosewhoactonbehalfoftheChurchshouldnotmeetorworkalonewithachildorvulnerableadultwheretheactivitycannotbeseenunlessthisisnecessaryforpastoralreasons,inwhichcaseawrittennoteofthiswillbemadeandkeptnotingdate,timeandplaceofvisit.
iii)ThechurchpremiseswillbeassessedforsafetyforchildrenandvulnerableadultsandtheriskassessmentreportwillbegivenannuallytotheParochialChurchCouncilsinwrittenform.Thiswillincludefiresafetyprocedures.EachParochialChurchCouncilwillconsidertheextenttowhichthepremisesandequipmentaresuitableorshouldbemademoresuitable.
iv)Anydriverusingtheirownvehicleforthetransportationofchildrenorvulnerableadultsisresponsibleforensuringthevehicleisroadworthyandcomprehensivelyinsured.(DriverstocheckwiththeirInsuranceCompanyretherequirementforbusinesscover)
c)Appointmentandtrainingofworkers
WorkerswillbeappointedafterasatisfactoryDBSdisclosureandcompletionofProtectionofchildren,youngpeopleandvulnerableadultsSG7-ConfidentialDeclarationForm,Appendix2.Eachworkerwillbeexpectedtoundergobasic
safeguardingtraining,uponappointment.Theothertrainingneedsofeachworkerwillbeconsidered and reviewed on a regular basis.
d)Pastoralvisitors
Intermsofsafeguarding,Lay PastoralAssistantswillbesupportedintheirrolewiththeprovisionofbasicsafeguardingtraininguponappointment.
e)Guidelinesforworkingwithchildren,youngpeopleandvulnerableadults
TheGuidelinesexistandarereviewedannually.Theseareaccessibletoeachworkerwithchildren,youngpeopleandvulnerableadultsoutlininggoodpractice.
f)Eventswithchurchgroupsoffthepremises
Adequatestaffingwillbeensuredforsuchevents.Notificationoftheeventwillbegiventothe relevant PCCinadvance.
g)E-safety
TheGuidelinesexistandarereviewedannually.Theseareaccessibletoeachworkerwithchildren,youngpeopleandvulnerableadultsoutlininggoodpractice.
h)Othergroupsonchurchpremises
Wherethebuildingishiredforoutsideusethepersonwillberequiredtosignalettingagreement.IfthegroupincludesyoungpeopleorvulnerableadultstheywillbegivenacopyofSG5-SafeguardingRequirements,Appendix2.
i)Complaintsprocedure
Itishopedthatcomplaintscanbedealtwithinternallybyindividualgroupleaders.However,acomplaintmaybemadetoaParishSafeguardingRepresentative.Ifacomplaintismadetoanotherperson,itshouldbepassedontothe appropriateParishSafeguardingRepresentativewhowillarrangetomeetwiththecomplainantandattempttoresolvethecomplaint.Ifthecomplaintcannotberesolved,considerationwillbegiventoinvokingthecomplaintsprocedureoftheChurchofEngland.
j)Review
ThispolicywillbereviewedannuallybytheTeamCouncil.
k)Keyconceptsanddefinitions:
i)VulnerableAdults:anyadultaged18oroverwho,byreasonofmentalorotherdisability,age,illnessorothersituationispermanentlyorforthetimebeingunabletotakecareofhimorherself,ortoprotecthimorherselffromsignificantharmorexploitation.
ii)Safeguardingandprotectingchildrenorvulnerableadults:preventingmaltreatment;preventingimpairmentoftheirhealthandensuringsafeandeffectivecare.
iii)Adult/childprotectionisapartofsafeguardingandpromotingwelfare.Thisreferstotheactivitywhichisundertakentoprotectchildren/specificadultswhoaresufferingorareatriskofsufferingsignificantharm,includingneglect.
iv)Abuseandneglectmayoccurinafamily,inacommunityandinaninstitution. Itmaybeperpetratedbyapersonorpersonsknowntothechildorvulnerableadultorbystrangers;byanadultorbyachild.Itmaybeaninflictionofharmorafailuretopreventharm.
Dated24th June 2015
Signed ...... ChairofTeamCouncil
Revd Nils Bersweden
Allguidelinesarevalidforworkwithchildren,youngpeopleand vulnerableadults
GUIDELINE1
Adoptapolicyonsafeguardingthewelfareofchildren,youngpeoplevulnerableadults.
ThispolicywillbereviewedonanannualbasisandthereviewdatewillberecordedinAppendix1–PolicyStatementReview.
GUIDELINE2
Planyourworksoastominimisesituationswhereabusemayoccur.
Guidelinesforallworkers
Youshould:
- treateveryonewithrespectanddignity;
- ensurethatyourownlanguage,toneofvoiceandbodylanguageisrespectful;
- alwaysaimtoworkwithinsightofanotheradult;
- toiletbreaksshouldbeorganisedwhereapplicable;
- ensureanotheradultisinformedifapersonneedstobetakentothetoilet;
- ensurethatyoungpeopleandvulnerableadultsknowwhotheycantalktoiftheyneedtospeaktosomeoneaboutapersonalconcern;
- respondappropriatelytopeople’sneedsandconcernsensuringthereareotheradultsaround;
- ifanyactivityrequiresphysicalcontact,ensurethatthechild,youngperson,vulnerableadultandtheirparents/carersareawareofthisanditsnaturebeforehand;
- administeranynecessaryFirstAidwithothersaround;
- obtainconsentforanyphotographs/videostobetaken,shownordisplayed;
- recordanyconcerningincidentsandgivetheinformationtoyourgroupLeader.Signanddatetherecord;
- alwaysshareconcernsaboutachild,youngpersonorvulnerableadultorthebehaviourofanotherworkerwithyourgroupleaderand/orParishSafeguardingRepresentative.
Youshouldnot:
- initiatephysicalcontact.Anynecessarycontactshouldbeinitiatedbytheindividual;
- invadetheindividual’sprivacywhilewashingortoileting;
- playroughphysicalorsexuallyprovocativegames;
- useanyformofphysicalpunishment;
- besexuallysuggestiveaboutortoanindividualeveninfun;
- touchanindividualinappropriatelyorobtrusively;
- scapegoat,ridiculeorrejectanindividualorgroup;
- permitabusivepeeractivitiese.g.initiationceremonies,ridiculingorbullying;
- showfavouritismtoanyindividualorgroup;
- allowanindividualtoinvolveyouinexcessiveattentionseekingthatisovertlyphysicalorsexualinnature;
- giveliftstoanindividualontheirownoronyourown;
- drinkalcoholwhenresponsibleforchildren,youngpeopleorvulnerableadults;
- sharesleepingaccommodationinappropriately;
- inviteachild,youngpersonorvulnerableadulttoyourhomealone;
- arrangesocialoccasionswithchildren,youngpeopleorvulnerableadults(otherthanfamilymembers)outsideorganisedgroupoccasions;
- allowunknownadultsaccesstochildren,youngpeopleorvulnerableadults.Visitorsshouldalwaysbeaccompaniedbyaknownperson;
- allowstrangerstogiveliftstochildren,youngpeopleorvulnerableadults.
Additionalguidelinesforgroupleaders
Inadditiontotheabovethegroupleadershould:
- ensureanyhealthandsafetyrequirementsareadheredto;
- undertakeriskassessmentswithappropriateactiontakenandrecordkept;
- keepregisterandconsentformsuptodate;(SeeFormsSG2and3–Appendix2;FormsandDocumentation)
- haveanawareness,atalltimes,ofwhatistakingplaceandwhoispresent;
- createspaceforchildrentotalk–eitherformallyorinformally;
- liaisewithParishSafeguardingRepresentativeovergoodpracticeforsafeguarding;
- alwaysinformtheParishSafeguardingRepresentativeofanyspecificsafeguardingconcernsthatarise.TheParishSafeguardingRepresentativewillliaisewiththediocesansafeguardingadviser;
- liaisewiththePCC.
GOODPRACTICEWITHCOLLEAGUES.
IfyouseeanotherLeaderorWorkeractinginaway,whichmightbemisconstrued,bepreparedtospeaktoyourParishSafeguardingRepresentativeaboutyourconcerns.Leadersshouldencourageanatmosphereofmutualsupportandcarewhichallowsallworkerstobecomfortableenoughtodiscussinappropriateattitudesorbehaviour
TOUCH
Takenfrom‘TheDioceseofSalisburySafeguardingandGoodPracticeGuidelines
(May 2013)’
“Church-sponsoredgroupsandactivitiesshouldprovideawarm,nurturingenvironmentforchildrenandyoungpeople,whileavoidinganyinappropriatebehaviourortheriskofallegationsbeingmade.Childabuseisharmofaveryseriousnaturesothatitisunlikelythatanytypeofphysicalcontactinthecourseofchildrenandyouthworkcouldbemisconstruedasabuse.Allvolunteersmustworkwithorwithinsightofanotheradult.
Touching/hugging:withadults,youngpeopleorchildrenyoushouldalwaysaskwhethertheywishtobetouchedorhugged.Somemay,butmanydonot(atleastnotonfirstacquaintance).Shakinghandsiscourteousandoftenappreciatedbyolderpeople.Ifyoudotouchorhug,handsshouldalwaysbeoutsidetheperson’sclothingandneveronanypartofthebodywhichmightbeconsideredinappropriate(knees,bottom,breasts).Itisimportantthatpeoplewithlearningdisabilitieslearnwhatformofbodycontactisappropriateindifferentsocialsituations;thishelpstokeepthemsafeandhelpsthemtobecomeawarewhenpeoplearebehavinginappropriatelyandpossiblyexploitingthem.
Veryoccasionallyitmaybenecessarytorestrainachildoryoungpersonwhoisharmingher/himselforothers.Usetheleastpossibleforceandinformtheparentsassoonaspossible.Allsuchincidentsshouldberecordedandtheinformationgiventothechurchsafeguardingco-ordinator.
Allphysicalcontactshouldbeanappropriateresponsetothechild’sneedsnottheneedsoftheadult.Colleaguesmustbepreparedtosupporteachotherandactorspeakoutiftheythinkanyadultisbehavinginappropriately.”
MONEY/GIFTS
Ifyouaregivenmoneyorgiftsforanyreason,ensurethedonationisacknowledged(byreceiptand/orthankyouletter)assoonaspossible.Thisbothpreservestheaudittrailforthedonationandprotectsyouagainstanycomplaintthatmoneyhasbeentakenwithouttheknowledgeorconsentofthevulnerableadult,youngpersonorchild.
RECRUITMENT
PleaserefertotheDiocesanSaferRecruitmentHandbookwhichisheldintheSafeguardingManual;heldintheTeam office.
DATAPROTECTION
TheDataProtectionAct.14givesindividualstherighttoknowwhatinformationisheldaboutthem.Itprovidesaframeworktoensurethatpersonal information ishandledproperly;itisnotabarriertosharinginformation.PleaserefertotheDataProtectionHandbookwhichisheldintheSafeguardingManual;heldintheTeam office.
GENERALSAFETYCHECKLIST.
CHECKTHAT:
- Premises,includingthelighting,andequipmentusedwithchildren,youngpeopleorvulnerableadultsaresafe,wellmaintainedandsuitableforthepurpose.
- Asystemofregularchecksbeforeuseneedstobeestablished.
- Undertake a risk assessment for each activity and in greater detail for anunusual activity or when away from the usual location.
- AnuptodateFirstAidkitisavailableandanominatedpersonshouldberesponsibleformaintainingthekitandalladultsshouldknowwheretofindit.
- Encouragestaffand volunteer workers to have some FirstAid knowledgeandprovideaccessto First Aidtraining.
- TheFirstAidkitcantravelwithyou.
- Allworkersknowwhattodoinanemergency.
- Nomedicationisgiventoachildunder18yearswithoutthewrittenconsentofaguardian/parent.
- Allaccidents/incidentsarerecordedintheaccidentbook(whichiskeptintheChurchFirstAidboxonthewallintheVestibule)
- Proceduresareinplacefordealingwithsickorinjuredchildren,andforaccompanyingyoungchildrentothetoilet.Rememberthatratiosstillneedtobecorrectifanadultgoesoutoftheroom.
- Aparentalconsentformandahealthformhavebeencompletedforeachchild/youngperson.
- Consentforms,completedbyaparent/guardian,shouldalwaysbe used foranyoneunder18whenundertakingactivitiesoutsidethenormalmeetingplace.
- Aregistershouldbekept,andregularlyupdated,ofallchildrenoryoungpeopleattendingthegroupwithdetailsofhomeaddresses,telephonenumberandaparent/Carerorguardian’sname.Intheeventofafiretheleadershouldtaketheregistertocheckthateveryoneisoutofthebuilding.
- Fire noticesare displayedinforming peoplewhattodoincaseof fire.
- Leadersandchildren/youngpeopleknowwhattodointheeventofanemergency.
- Fireappliancesandsmokedetectorswhere appropriate areservicedregularlyandthatleadersknowwheretheycanbefoundandhowtousethem.(Detailsheld intheIndividualChurchesHealthSafetyHandbook)
- Itisclearwhoisresponsibleforchildrenaftertheactivityisover,andwhotheyaregoinghomewith.
- Theroomsaresecurefromunwelcomepeople.
- Youngpeoplecannotgooutsidewithoutleaders’agreement.
- Ensurethatatelephoneisavailableforallemergencies.
- ThelocalauthoritySocialServicesDepartmentshouldbeinformed,inadvance,ofintentiontoprovidefacilitieswhichinvolvethecareofunder8’sformorethantwohourseventhoughregistrationisnotrequired.(AnuptodatelistofUnder8’sAdvisersisavailablefromtheSalisburyDiocesanBoardofEducationOfficersbasedDiocesanOfficeatCraneSt,Salisbury.)
- Ensurethatcarinsurancesareappropriatefortransportingmembers.
- Ensurethathouseinsurancesareappropriateforgroupmeetings.
- Adult/Childrenratiosarerightforthegroupandoccasion.
RECOMMENDEDRATIOS:(NBanadultissomeoneover18)
IndoorActivities.Under8years.
ThestandardratiosrequiredundertheChildrenActareasfollows;
- 0–2years =1memberofstaffto3children.
- 2–3years =1memberofstaffto4children.
- 3–8years =1memberofstaffto8children.
- Itshouldbenotedthattheseareratiosofadultstochildren.Onnoaccountshouldaworkerbebythemselveswiththisage-group.Theminimumnumberofadultsshouldalwaysbetwo,andpreferablythree.Itisrecommendedthattherebeonemaleandonefemale.
- Ifsmallgroupsareinthesameroomoradjoiningroomswithopenaccessbetweenthemitispossibletohaveonly1adultpergroup,dependentonthenatureoftheactivity.
- Youngpeoplewhoarebeing encouragedtodeveloptheirleadershipskillsthroughhelpingshouldalwaysbeoverseenbyanappointedworkerwhowillberesponsibleforensuringthatgoodpracticeandsafeguardingproceduresarefollowedandthattheworktheyaredoingisappropriatetoboththeirageandunderstanding.
- Adultswhoassistononeortwooccasionsmustberesponsibletoanappointedworker.Thereafter,theyshouldbecomepartoftheteamandbeproperlyappointedthroughthenormalrecruitmentprocess.
Eightyearsandover
TheChildrenActonlyspecifiestheratiosforunder8’s.Therecommendedratiosforchildrenandyoungpeopleover8areasfollows;
- 1personforthefirst8childrenandthen1extrapersonforevery12children.
OutdoorActivities.
Morehelpmayberequired.
Transportingchildrenonbehalfofthechurch
Drivers
- Allthosewhodrivechildrenonchurch-organisedactivitiesshouldhaveheldafullandcleandrivinglicenceforovertwoyears.
- Driverswhoarenotchildren’sworkersshouldberecruitedforthetaskthroughthenormalrecruitmentprocess.
- Anydriverwhohasanendorsementof6pointsormoreontheirlicenceshouldinformthegroupleaderandthechurch/parishsafeguardingrepresentative.
- Anydriverwhohasanunspentconvictionforanyseriousroadtrafficoffenceshouldnottransportchildrenforthechurch.
- Driversmustalwaysbeinafitstatei.e.notover-tired;notundertheinfluenceofalcohol;nottakingillegalsubstances;notundertheinfluenceofmedicinewhichmayinducedrowsiness.
Privatecar
- Childrenandyoungpeopleshouldnotbetransportedinaprivatecarwithoutthepriorconsentoftheirparentsorcarers.Thisalsoappliestoformallyarrangedliftstoandfromachurchactivity.
- Anydriverusingtheirownvehicleforthetransportationofchildrenorvulnerableadultsisresponsibleforensuringthevehicleisroadworthyandcomprehensivelyinsured.(DriverstocheckwiththeirInsuranceCompanyretherequirementforbusinesscover).Allcarsthatcarrychildrenshouldbeinaroadworthycondition.
- Allchildrenmustwearsuitableseatbeltsanduseappropriateboosterseats.Ifthereareinsufficientseatbelts,additionalchildrenshouldnotbecarried.
- Atnotimeshouldthenumberofchildreninacarexceedtheusualpassengernumber.
- Thereshouldbeanon-drivingadultescortaswellasthedriver.Ifinanemergencyadriverhastotransportonechildonhisorherown,thechildmustsitinthebackofthecar.
Minibusorcoach
- Workersandhelpersshouldsitamongthegroupandnottogether.
- Ifnoiseorbehaviourappearstobegettingoutofcontrol,stopthevehicleuntilcalmisrestored.
- Beforeusingaminibus,ensureyouknowtheup-to-dateregulationsforitsuseandhavehadatrialdrive.
E-SAFETY
A‘youngperson’isdefinedasanyoneundertheageof18.HoweverFacebook’sownrulesonlyallowthoseaged13+tojoinit.PleasealwaysfollowthetermssetoutbyFacebook.
Withinourownworkatin the Clarendon Teamthefollowingpolicyregardingcontactingyoungpeopleviaemailandmobilephoneswillbefromtheschoolyear8andabove.Thereforeyoungpeoplebelowyear8willnotreceiveelectroniccommunication.
‘Adults’alsouseFacebook,emailsandtextssothefollowingprinciplesshouldalsobeappliedtocommunicationwithadultsaswell.
SOCIALMEDIAANDNETWORKING
“Socialmediaincludesweb-basedandmobilebasedtechnologieswhichareusedtoturncommunicationintointeractivedialogueamongorganisations,communitiesandindividuals“
Socialnetworks,whenusedeffectively,areagreatwayofcommunicatingwhat’sgoingoninourministry.Becauseoftheirreachhowever,caremustbetakeninhowtheyareestablishedandused.Belowaresomeguidelinesonhowsocialnetworksshouldbeusedwithintheministryofthe Churches of the Clarendon Team.
PERSONALUSEOFSOCIALNETWORKS
It’simportanttorealisethatyourpersonaluseofsocialnetworksis
reallyaportrayalofyourpositionandtheministryofthe churches within the Clarendon Team.Peoplewhofollowyouwon’tseethedistinctionofyourpersonallifeandyourroleinthechurch.Thereforeit’simportanttothinkthroughthemessageyouaresendingthroughthesenetworks.Agoodguidelinetouseis“ifyouwon’tsenditfromtheClarendonTeamemailaddressdon’tpostittoasocialnetwork”.
ELECTRONICCOMMUNICATIONSPOLICY
Whenelectroniccommunication(CommunicationviaMobilePhone,SocialNetworking(ifaged13orover)andEmail)takesplacebetweenadultsandyoungpeoplethefollowingpracticesmustbefollowed:
- ItisimportantthatparentsareawareofandgiveconsenttoYouthLeaderscommunicatingelectronicallywiththeirsonordaughter.Parent’sconsentwillbegained(SeeFormSG2–Appendix2;FormsandDocumentation)atthebeginningofeachacademicyearfortheirsonordaughtertobecontacteddirectlybyappropriateadultsvia;MobilePhone,SocialNetworking(ifaged13orover)andEmail.
- AppropriateAdultsarepeoplewhoareworkingdirectlywithyoungpeopleorwhohaveapastoralresponsibilityforayoungperson.AppropriateAdultswillalsosignaform(SeeformDP4bE-SafetyDataProtectionForm,Appendix2–FormsandDocumentation),andhavepermissionfromtheClarendon TeamMinister.
- AppropriateAdultsneedtoavoidcontactingyoungpeoplebefore8:00amandafter10:00pm.Thisisunlesstheyoungpersoncontactsyoufirstinanemergency.
- Whencommunicatingwithagroupofyoungpeople,theappropriateadultshouldsendexactlythesameemail/textmessagetoallrecipients,asindividuallywrittenoneswiththesamesubjectcouldbemisinterpretedasfavouritism.
- Whenindiscussionwithayoungperson,topics,whichareofasensitivenatureorcouldbeeasilymisinterpreted,shouldnotbediscussedelectronicallyandaface-to-facemeetingshouldbearranged.
- Conversationsarebestwritten/typedinfullandtheuseofabbreviationsavoided.Thisisduetotheriskofamisinterpretation,forexample,“LOL”traditionallymeans“LaughoutLoud”asaresponsetoajokeorfunnysituation;howeverthiscanalsobeinterpretedas“LotsofLove”.
- Somesocialnetworkingwebsitesandprogramsoffertheoptionforoneorbothusersinaconversationtodisplayaliveimageofthemselvesviaawebcam.Duetotheincreasedrisksofabusewithwebcams,adultsmustnotusewebcamswithyoungpeople;neitherdisplayingthemselvesnorviewingyoungpeople.
- Adultswhoministertochildrenandyoungpeoplearestronglyencouragedtosetverystringentprivacysettingsonanysocialnetworkingprofile.
- Adultsshouldnotsubmit“friend”requeststoyoungpeople.Youngpeoplemaynotbeabletodeclinesuchrequestsduetothedisparityofpowerbetweenyoungpeopleandadults.Youngpeoplemayasktobe“friends”,andadultsshoulddiscernthelevelofcontacttheywanttomaintainwithyoungpeoplepriortorespondingtotheserequests.
GUIDELINE3
IntroduceasystemwherebyvulnerablepeoplemaytalktoanindependentpersonInconsultationwiththeDiocesanSafeguardingChildrenandYoungPeopleAdvisorwehaveagreedthatinouropinionchildrenandyoungpeopleareunlikelytotalktoanappointedperson,butratherthattheywouldprobablytalktotheirgroupleaderoranotheradulttheyknowwell.Thereforewewillprovidetrainingtoallpeoplewhoworkwithchildrenandyoungpeopletoensurethateverybodyknowswhattodoifissuesareraised.
GUIDELINE4
The Team Council recognizes that supervisionis the bestmeansofprotectingchildren.
Eachworker,howeverexperienced,shouldhavesomeonewhooverseestheirwork,fortheirownsupportaswellastoprotectthechildren.
In our Churches where supervision may not be possible, then any concerns should be raised with PSR.
There should be an annual meeting with all those who work with children in the Team to update and share good practice.
Goodpracticeinsupervision.
Thesupervisorshould:
a)Meetwithworkersregularly(onceaterm),toreviewandplanthework.
b)Askaboutworkingandpersonalrelationshipswiththechildren.
c)Createregular(atleastonceaterm)opportunitiesforobservingtheworkerwiththechildren.Watchinparticularforanychildreceivingexceptionaltreatment,beinghighlyfavouredortreatedundulyharshly.
d)(BeawarethatworkersusingChurchcomputershaveaccesstochatrooms,childpornographyetc.---N/A to us atm)
e)Keepawrittenrecordofthefactsofeachmeeting,andanythingofnote,whichisobserved.TheserecordsshouldbestoredintheTeam Office.
f)If any concerns over any worker arises the PSR should be contacted and the Team Rector notified.
Itisimportanttokeepaccuraterecordsofanychildprotectionconcerns,disclosureorallegations.Factsobservedordisclosedshouldbeaccuratelyrecorded,signedanddated.Opinionsshouldnotbeincluded.Ifanyrecordsaretobekeptwithoutthesubjectoftherecord’sknowledge,itshouldbemadeclearwhythisisso,forinstanceifthereappearstobeaworryingpatternofbehaviourwhichneedstobemonitored.Trytobeconsistentaboutwhatiskeptsothatitcanbejustifiedifnecessary.Actionstakenanddecisionsmadeshouldallbenoted.Itshouldberecordedwhoknowsabouttheinformation,forexamplethesubjectoftherecord,thechild’sparentsetc.
EitherthePSRortheMinisterwillkeepallrecordssecurely.AllconfidentialmaterialwillbeplacedwiththeRuralDeanduringaninterregnumorequallysafearrangementsmade.
Anyinformationregardingachildprotectionconcernetc.willnotbekeptoncethesituationhasbeenresolved.
TheHumanRightsAct1988includesboththerighttoprivacyoffamilylifeandalsotherighttolifeandtherightnottobetortured.Itisexpectedthatthecourtswillupholdtheneedtopassoninformationforthepurposesofprotectingachild.Thehighestdegreeofconfidentialityconsistentwiththisshouldbemaintainedandonlyinformationnecessaryforthesafeguardingofchildrenpassedon.
e)Any concerns are passed on if the person concerned moves to anotherChurch.
GUIDELINE5
Agreeandissueguidelinesforprocedureifabuseissuspectedordisclosed.
Inallcases,wemustfollowanagreedprocedureofconsultationandreferral.Itisnotthetaskofanindividualorthechurchtoinvestigate.Fortheprotectionofbothchildrenandworkers,sensiblestepsshouldbetakenontheroadtoreferral.
PROCEDURESIFABUSEISDISCLOSEDORDISCOVERED.
Ifachilddisclosesabusebysomeoneoutsidethechurchthepersontowhomitisdisclosedshouldtellthechildwhatstepstheyaretaking,makehandwrittennotesassoonaspossibleafterthedisclosure,andreportittotheTeam Rector,whowilltheninformtheDiocesanSafeguardingAdvisor,DiocesanOffice,CraneStreet,Salisbury.SP12QB.TelephoneNumber01722411922.
Ifabuseissuspected,theconcernshouldbepassedontotheTeam Rectorassoonaspossible,whowillthenassessthesituationfortheneedforfurtherreferral.
Ifabusebysomeoneinthechurchisdisclosedorsuspected,itmustbereportedimmediatelytotheTeam Rector whowilltheninformtheDiocesanSafeguardingAdvisor,DiocesanOffice,CraneStreet,Salisbury.SP12QB.TelephoneNumber01722411922.IfthecomplaintisagainsttheTeam RectorthedetailsmustbereferredtotheDiocesanSafeguardingAdvisor,DiocesanOffice,CraneStreet,Salisbury.SP12QB.TelephoneNumber01722411922.
TheChurchandallitsappointedchildren’sandyouthworkersarecommittedtotheprotectionofchildrenfromallkindsofabuse.(Referto‘ProtectingallGod’sChildren2011’Pages11-16,formoredetail).Acopycanbefoundinthe‘ThePoliciesMasterCopies’folderheldintheTeam office.
TYPESOFABUSE
PhysicalWherechildren’sbodiesarehurtorinjured.
EmotionalWherechildrendon’treceiveloveandaffection,maybefrightenedbythreatsortaunts,oraregivenresponsibilities beyond theiryears.
SexualWhere adults (and sometimes other children), use children tosatisfysexualdesires.
NeglectWhere adults fail to care for children and protect them fromdanger,seriouslyimpairinghealthanddevelopment.
SIGNSOFABUSE.
Thefollowingmayindicateabuse,butdonotjumptoconclusions.Therecouldbeotherexplanations.
PHYSICALUnexplainedorhiddeninjuries,lackofmedicalattention.
EMOTIONALRevertingtoyoungerbehaviour,nervousness,suddenunderachievement,attentionseeking,turningaway,stealing,lying.
SEXUALPreoccupationwithsexualmattersevidentinwords,play,drawings;Beingsexuallyprovocativewithadults; Disturbedsleep,Nightmares,bedwetting;Secretiverelationshipwithadultsorchildren;Tummypainswithnoapparentcause.
NEGLECTLookingill-caredforandunhappy,beingwithdrawnoraggressive.
Havinglingeringinjuriesorhealthproblems.
IFABUSEISDISCLOSEDORDISCOVERED.
Donotdelay.
Donotactalone.
Donotstarttoinvestigate.
ConsultwiththeMinisterimmediately.
WHATTODOIFAPERSONDISCLOSESTHATTHEYAREHARMINGACHILD
Lookatthemdirectly.Acceptwhattheysay.
Donotpressforinformation.
ExplainthattheMinisterwillbeinformed,astheChurchcannotkeepabuseconfidential.
Informthemthatsupportwillbeofferedbyasuitableperson.
Assoonaspossiblemakehandwrittennotesofexactlywhatwassaid,recordthetime,dateandactiontobetaken.
InformtheMinisterassoonaspossible.
Donotdiscussthematterwithanyone,unlessrequestedbytheMinister.Ensurethatyoureceivesupport.
WHATTODOIFACHILDTELLSABOUTABUSE
Thefollowingisasummary,onlyforreference.Itisnosubstitutefortraining.
Lookatthechilddirectly.Acceptwhatthechildsays.
Beawarethatthechildmayhavebeenfrightened.Tellthechildtheyarenottoblame.
Donotpressforinformation.
Reassurethechildtheyarerighttotellandyoubelievethem.
Letthemknowwhatyouaregoingtodonext,whoyouaregoingtotellandwhy,androughlywhatwillhappen.
Offersupporttothechild.Finishonapositivenote.
Assoonaspossibleafterwardsmakehand-writtennotesofexactlywhatthechildsaidandthedateandtime,recordingandagreementsmade.
Ensurethatyougetsupport,ideallythroughtheMinister.
WHATTODOIFAPARENTOROTHERPERSONREPORTSABUSE
Parents,otheradultsorateenagermayreportabusebutbereluctanttoinformtherelevantauthoritiesinsuchcircumstances.TheyshouldbeencouragedtodiscussthematterwithSocialServicesorwithanothertrustedprofessionalwithSafeguarding
ChildrenandYoungPeopletraining.InanycaseitistheresponsibilityoftheChurchtoinformtheSocialServicesDepartmentoftheallegationsothatthechildoryoungpersonandotherchildrenareprotected.
UNTRUEALLEGATIONS
Occasionallyanuntrueallegationmaybemade.Itisimportantnottomakejudgementsandtoallowanallegationtobecarefullyinvestigatedtotrytoascertainthetruth.
Untrueallegationscanbetheresultofsomeotherconcernorunhappinessinthechild’slife.Itisveryimportantthatpeopleworkingwithchildrendonotputthemselvesinvulnerablesituations.
COMMUNICATIONSWITHTHEMEDIA
IntheeventofanincidentcommunicationsbothwithinandoutsidetheDioceseofSalisburywillbehandledbytheDiocesanCommunicationsCo-ordinatorwhowillconsultwiththeBishop,theparishandtheDiocesanSafeguardingChildrenandYoungPeopleAdviser.Particularcareshouldbetakenregardinganypublicstatementorpublicprayer.
GUIDELINE6
SexoffenderswithintheCongregation
TheChurchisaplaceforallwhofallshortandsin,forthevulnerableandforthoseinneed.Wewillofferhelpandsupporttoanex-offenderbuttheprotectionofthechildrenintheChurchwillcomefirst.Abusersofchildrenareusuallypeoplewhogetonwellwithchildrenandwhochildrenlike.
Presentresearchsuggeststhatsexualoffendingcanbeakindofaddictionthatisveryhardtocontrolandcanonlybemanaged.Thiswillbeborneinmindwhenwelcominganex-offenderintothechurchcommunity.
Manyex-offenderswillseekGod’sforgivenessfortheircrimes.Genuinerepentanceimpliesthatthepersonconcernedwillacceptthatfuturehelpisrequiredtopreventareoccurrenceoftheoffenceandtodealwiththehumanandsocialeffectsofthesin.Aswellasprofessionaltherapy,thismayrequirecontinuingsupervisionanddisciplinewithintheChurchaspartoftheministrytotheex-offender.Anex-offenderwillneedtoacceptthatnofurthercontactorworkwithchildrenoryoungpeoplecanbepermittedandthatacontinuingpastoralrolemaybeimpossible.Sensitivecareoftheoffenderisneededinthesecircumstances.
Ifapersonconvictedofsexualabuseagainstachildisdiscoveredwithinthecongregationanassessmentofriskmustbecarriedout,whichshouldbedonetogetherwiththepolice,probationservicesandchildren’ssocialcare,andwiththediocesansafeguardingchildrenadviser.Thestatutoryagencieswillprovideappropriateinformationandguidanceinthis.
INTEGRATIONOFAKNOWNSEXUALOFFENDERINTOTHECONGREGATION
IfaknownoffenderjoinsthechurchwewillbeextendloveandfriendshiptotheindividualbutatthesametimetheTeam Rectorwillensurethatafrankdiscussiontakesplacewiththepersonconcernedandthateffortsaremadetosustainopencommunications.
ItwillbenecessarytoestablishclearboundariesforboththeprotectionoftheyoungpeopleandtolessenthepossibilityoftheadultbeingwronglyaccusedofabuseorputintoaHighRiskSituation.
FurtherdetailsofhowthiscanbeachievedcanbeobtainedfromtheDiocesanSafeguardingChildrenandYoungPeopleAdvisor,ifrequired.
MINISTERINGTOPEOPLEWHOAREKNOWNTOHAVESEXUALLYABUSEDCHILDREN
Pleasereferto‘ProtectingAllGod’sChildren’pages50-52.Acopycanbefoundinthe‘ThePoliciesMasterCopies’folderheldintheTeam office.
GUIDELINE7
OthergroupsandtheiruseofChurchpremises
TheP.C.C.mustdecidewhichgroupsandwhichactivitiesaretheirresponsibility.AlthoughothergroupsandfunctionsthatinvolvechildrenonchurchpremisesarenotthedirectresponsibilityoftheP.C.C.,thereisadutyofcarethatmeansinformingoutsidegroupsoftheproceduresthattheyshouldfollow.
1.AgreementsforhiringpremiseswhicharetheresponsibilityoftheP.C.C.mustcontainthefollowingclause(oroneofsimilareffect):“In the use of premisesyoumakeyourselfresponsibleforensuringthesafetyofanyandallchildrenthatusethepremisesduringthehireperiod,andyouagreetotakeproperstepstopreventtheoccurrenceofanyinjury,loss,damageorharmtochildrenorothervulnerablepeopleinthecourseofthehiring”.Thisagreementshouldbesignedbythehirer.
2.One-offbookingsandregularbookings
IfthegroupincludesyoungpeopleorvulnerableadultstheywillbegivenacopyofSG5-SafeguardingRequirements,Appendix2.Thisincludesacopyof“Safeguarding policy”recommendationsandinformationonthenumbersofhelpersrequiredtothenumberofchildrenexpected.HelperswillneedtofillintheSG7-ConfidentialDeclarationFormsprovided,Appendix2.
3.Regularbookings.
Regularbookingsshouldbethesubjectofinvestigationoftheprocessesfollowedbytheuser.IfthereisnoprocedureinplaceoriftheP.C.C.isunhappywiththeproceduresinoperation,theP.C.C.shouldconsiderrefusingtoreneworcontinuethebookingunlesstheyagreetofollowasuitableproceduredisclosedtotheP.C.C.
4.NoagreementshouldeverbemadethattheP.C.C.willapproveorvetanyproceduretobefollowedbyothers.
5.ObservationbyamemberoftheP.C.C.(usuallythePSR)oftheactivitiesofthehirermustbeforinformationpurposesonlyandnomemberoftheP.C.C.shouldbecomeinvolvedinthefollowing,orimplementing,ofanyprocedureotherthantheonetheP.C.C.usesforitsfunctions.
6.IfindoubtabouttheresponsibilitiesinvolvedcontacttheDiocesanSafeguardingChildrenandYoungPeopleAdvisorwhowilladvise.
Theminimumrequirementswhichwewillaskgroupstoadheretoare:
1.SignedSG7-ConfidentialDeclarationForms,Appendix2fromallpaidandvoluntaryworkers,atleasttwoworkersforeverygroup,whateverthesize,keepingagenderbalance.
2.Ifachildoryoungpersonisalonewithaworkerforanyreasontheremustalwaysbeanadultnearbyandthechildmustbeinformedwherethatpersonis.
3.Nopersonunder18shouldbeleftinchargeofagroup.
4.Aregistermustbekeptofthechildrenattendingthegroup,whichincludesname,address,dateofbirthandnextofkin.
Wealsoneedtoofferoursupporttoanyotherorganisationsusingourpremisestoenablethemtocomplywithourrequirements.
GUIDELINE8
Insurance
Allgroupsshouldensurethereisadequateinsurancefortheworktheyaredoing,includingpublicliabilityinsurance.Thetermsofthechurchinsurancepolicyprovidecoverforthechurchbuildingandthechurchactivities.
TheP.C.C.willensurethatthepolicyincludeslegalprotectioninsurancetocoverlegalcostsresultingfromallegationsmadeagainstitsemployeesorvolunteers.
Theinsurancecompanymustbenotifiedofanyallegationsofabusethatarelikelytoaffecttheinsuranceheldbytheparish.Thisnotificationshouldbedirectedtothemanagerordirectorandmarkedstrictlyprivateandconfidential.Failuretonotifytheinsurerscouldprejudicethecoverundertheinsurancepolicy.
AllgroupsneedtorecordanyactivitiesandeventswiththeP.C.C.Inprincipleitmustshowtheinsuredparty(theP.C.C.)hasagreedtotheactivitybeingundertakeninspecificratherthaninbroadorgeneralterms.Thedecisionsneedtobeminuted.ForexampletheP.C.C.hasagreedto“this”disco,with“these”staff,between“these”hours,for“this”purpose–NOTsimplyagreedtotheconceptofadiscoingeneral).Therearemanyactivitieswhichareexcludedfromthechurchinsurance.Theseareasfollows:
- Aqualungdiving
- Flying–exceptairtravel
- Hanggliding
- Parachuting
- Huntingonhorseback,Polo
- Pot-holing
- MotorCycling
- Mountaineeringnecessitatingtheuseofropesorguides
- Associationfootball–otherthanactingasanofficial
- Powerboatinginaboatcapableofmorethan30knots
- Rugbyfootball–otherthanactingasanofficial
- Treefellingorloppingotherthanworkwithinthescopeofthejobbinggardener
- Useofscaffoldingunlessprofessionallyerected
- Racingotherthanonfoot
- Serviceinthearmedforces
- ShowJumping
- IceHockey
- Wintersportsexceptcurlingoriceskating
Appendix1 – PolicyStatement Review
TheSafeguardingPolicyforThe ClarendonTeamwasapprovedatthe Team Councilmeetingheldon24thJune 2015.ThisdocumentdetailstheannualreviewsbytheTeam Councilandanyadditionalreviewmadealongwithdatesofanychanges.
Version / ReviewDate / Signed / Position(ChairofTC) / Comments/Updatesmade1 / 24/6/2015 / Nils Berswedennnnnn / ChairofTC / Policyreviewedandaccepted
Appendix2– Formsand Documentation
ReferenceNumber / Title / FunctionSG1 / Safeguarding Checklist
(Churchgroups).ReferredtoinPSRR&R / UsedbyPSRtocheckChildProtectionproceduresofChurchGroups
SG2 / ConsentForm / UsedbyGroupLeaders
SG3 / Register / UsedbyGroupLeaders
SG4a / VisualInspectionChecklist / TobeusedbyGroupLeadersbeforesessions
SG4b / RiskAssessment–AdditionalActivities / TobeusedbyGroupLeadersbeforeanyadditionalactivitycangoahead.
SG5 / ChurchBookingsSafeguardingRequirements / TobeissuedtoChurchhirerswhenyoungpeopleorvulnerableadultsincluded
SG6 / SupervisionRecord / TobeusedbySupervisorat1:1meetings
SG7 / ConfidentialDeclarationForm / IssuedbyPSRtoallworkers
DP4b / E-SafetyDataProtectionForm / UsedbyGroupLeaders
Appendix3
InformationAboutTheSexualAbuseOfChildren
FrequentlyaskedquestionsaboutthebehaviourofsexualabusersWhosexuallyabuseschildrenandyoungpeople?
Approximately90%ofconvictedabusersaremale.Whilstwomendoperpetratesexualabuseandthereisunderreportingoffemalescommittingabuse,evidenceatpresentshowsitispredominantlyanoffencecommittedbymales.
Childrencanbesexuallyabusedbyadultsorbyotheryoungpeople.IntheUKyoungpeopleundertheageof21accountforapproximatelyathirdofallcautionsandconvictionsforsexualoffences.
Whataretheimplicationsofthis?
Manyadultsexualoffendersreportthattheybegantheirbehaviouraroundtheageof13orsometimesyounger.Thismeansthatwhentheyarefinallydiscoveredtheymayhavebeensexuallyabusingothersformanyyearsandtheirbehaviourwillhavebecomehardtostop.Italsomeansthatifayoungpersonengagesininappropriatesexualbehaviouritwouldbedangeroussimplytoviewitasteenage“experimentation” whichtheywillgrowoutof.
Whydopeopleabuse?
Thereasonswhyadultsabuseareverycomplex.Themajorityabusebecausetheywantto.Sometimestheywillhavebeenabusedthemselvesorberespondingtopasthurtsorunmetneeds.Sexualabuseofvulnerablechildrenmaymeetaneedforpowerandcontrolorforself-gratification.
Aresexualabuserslikelytoabuseaparticulartypeofchild?
Sexualabuserswillbeattractedtochildrenofdifferentagesandcharacteristics.Somewillabuseonlypre-pubescentchildren,otherswillapproacholderchildren.
Somewillabuseboys,othersgirlsandsomechildrenofbothsexes.
Ifanyabuserishavingasexualrelationshipwithanotheradult,thisdoesnotmeanthattheyarenotarisktochildren.
Someabusingadultsmayoperatealonewhilstothersmaybelinkedintoanorganisednetwork.
Canwerecogniseasexualabuser?
Itisnotpossibletoeasilyidentifysomeonewhowillsexuallyabusechildrenbecausetheyarefoundinallwalksoflifeandsectionsofthecommunity,withinallprofessionalgroupsandfromallsocialclassesandracialandculturalbackgrounds.
Doessexualabusejusthappen?
Asexualabusermayclaimthattheydidnotknowwhythebehaviourhappenedorthatitwasaresultofstress,sexualfrustrationormisuseofdrugsoralcohol.Thereisnoevidencethatthisisthecase.Sexualabuseisusuallycarefullyandmeticulouslyplanned,oftenoveralongperiodoftime.Abusersmaychoosefriendshipsorrelationshipswithadultswhoalreadyhavechildrenorcareerswheretheywillhavepositionsofresponsibilityoverchildren.
Cananadultwhosexuallyabusesachildstopbythemselves?
Alltheavailableevidencesuggeststhatoveraperiodoftimeanabuserwillhavedevelopedpowerfulsexualurges,fuelledbyfantasy,towardschildrenandwillfinditverydifficulttocontrolthesefeelings.Asexualabuserwillneedtoputcontrolsontheirbehaviourtoensurethattheydonothaveopportunitiestoabuseotherchildren.
Howcansexualabuserslivewiththemselves?
Unlessthesexualabuserisasadisticoffenderwhothrivesonthepainofothers,heorshewillhavetodevelopthoughtpatternsthatdenyorminimisetheharmcausedtoothers.Thisallowsthemtolivewiththemselves.Someofthewaysanabusertriestojustifytheirabusivebehaviourincludeclaimslike:
•Thechildwantedthesexualexperience
•Childrenareseductiveandprovocative
•Itwon’tharmthem
•Theylikedthesexualexperience
•Itwasa“one-off”anditwon’thappenagain
Thedistortedthinkingofasexualabusercanbefedinanumberofdifferentwaysincludingpornographicliterature,seekingoutotherlike-mindedadults,orbymisrepresentingchildrenassexualbeings.Inattemptingtodenyorminimisetheeffectsoftheirabusivebehaviour,asexualabusermayappearveryplausible.Thiscandrawotherpeopleintotheirwayofthinking.
Oneofthewaysanabusercandenyresponsibilityorseektoavoidhavingtoaddresstheirbehaviourthroughtreatmentisbyclaimingareligiousconversion.
Whenthisisthecase,itwouldbeimportanttoknowwhetherfaithinGodhasreallyleadtotruerepentance,takingfullresponsibilityfortheabuse,seekingtorepairitsdamageandseekingtopreventarelapsebyreceivingthesupportofothers.
Canasexualabuserbecured?
Thereisnoevidencethatasexualabuserofchildrencanbecuredofanattractiontochildren.Thisisbecausethebehaviourwillhavedevelopedovermanyyearsandwillbesoentrenchedthatitwillhavebecomeanintegralpartofaperson’scharacter.
Thebestwaytostopisforthemtodevelopaninsightintotheirpatternorcycleofbehaviourandbykeepingawayfromsituationswherechildabusecouldoccur.Toensurethatthereisnofurtheroffendingtheabuserislikelytorequirealong-termspecialistprogrammeandlong-termsupervisionsothattheycannotdeveloporreinforcetheirdistortedthinking.
Howdoadultstargetparticularchildrenforabuse?
Adultswhosexuallyabusechildrenareextremelygoodatrelatingtochildrenandgainingtheirconfidenceandtrustandareoftenwellknowntothechildortheirfamilyparticularlyiftheyareseenasasafeandtrustedperson.
The“grooming”process
Theprocessbywhichadultsintroducethechildintoasexuallyabusiverelationshipissometimesknownas“grooming”.Oftenthisinvolvesgettingtoknowthechildandshowingthemspecialattentionbeforeslowlyprogressingintosexualabuse.Alcohol,drugs,internetchatroomsandpornographycanbeusedintheprocess.Ifundiscovered,thisbehaviourislikelytobecomeincreasinglyintrusive,andanadultsexualabusercanregularlyabusethesamechildovermanyyears.Theabuseofotherchildrenatthesametimeisalsopossibledependingonthelevelofaccessandopportunity.
Inadditionto“grooming”thechild,anabuserwillalso“groom”otherpeoplearoundthemtocreatetheimpressionthattheywouldnotbecapableofsuchanaction.Iftheyarediscovered,thepeoplearoundthemmayfinditdifficulttobelievetheallegationsandmaydefendtheabuserratherthanthinkabouttheneedsofthechild.Insuchsituationsthechildwillfeelverydistressedthattheyarenotbelievedandmaybeunderpressuretoretracttheirallegations.
Arecertainchildrenmorevulnerablethanothers?
Allchildrenarepotentiallyatriskfromasexualabuser.However,childrenmaybeespeciallyvulnerableiftheyare:
- leftaloneforlongperiodsoftimewithoutpropersupervision.
- inCareorawayfromhome,atschooloronholiday
- emotionallydeprivedandparticularlylookingforlove,affectionorseekingattention.
- lonelyorbored.
- inneedofhighlevelsofintimatecareorhavecommunicationdifficultiesbecausetheysufferfromadisability.
- opentomanipulationbecausetheyhaveaspecialenthusiasmsuchassportormusicandaredependentuponagroupleaderorcoachtosucceed.
Whydon’tchildrentell?
Childrenareputunderimmensepressurebytheirabusertokeepareasoftheabusesecretandnottotellanyone.Someofthemainwaysthatthisisdoneinclude:
- Theabusermayofferchildrengiftsorothertreats.
- Theabusermaythreatenthechild,theirfamily,friendsorpets.
- Theabusermayentrapthechildintothinkingtheyhaveaspecialrelationshiporsecret.
- Thechildmaybetoldthatnoonewillbelieveanallegation.
- Theabusermayplacetheresponsibilityfortheabuseontothechildsothatthereisafeelingofguilt.
- Thechildmayfeelthatifadisclosureismadethefamilywillbesplitup.
- Theabusermayisolatethechildanddiscouragethechildfrommakingrelationshipswithotherswhocouldbetold.
- Thechildmaybeemotionallydependentupontheabuserandmayfearlosingthem.
Howdoesasexualabusergainaccesstochildren?
Adultswishingtoabusechildrencangainaccesstotheminmanydifferentways.
Anyorganisationthatworkswithchildrenhasthepotentialtobetargetedbyasexualabuser.Thisiswhyitisvitalthatchurchesdevelopsafepracticesintheirworkwithchildren.
AdaptedfrominformationsuppliedbyElizabethPennington.