Effective Communications Techniques
High Dominant Individuals Will: With High Dominant Individuals I will:
· Be to the point/direct + Compliment their plaques/awards/office
· Talk about results/bottom line + Give direct and concise answers
· Talk about the big picture + Give them a challenge
· Not be interested in details + Acknowledge their power/authority
· Give you a barrier/be provocative + Talk about “Bottom Line Results”
· Spar with you/confrontational + Don’t talk about any controls (have to’s)
· Say or act out, “Don’t waste my time” + Don’t bother him/her with trivial interferences
· Use few words/tells it like it is + Provide innovative problems solving ideas
· Clip words + Not repeat details; say things only once
· Project in words or demeanor, “This + Avoid saying, this is the way it’s always been done
better be important” + Express disagreement with prospect (they like it)
· Ask pointed questions + Focus on goals
· Not laugh easily + Tell him/her how they will win
· Use an aggressive voice + Tell them how long it will take (be honest)
· Act fearless/risk taker + Talk in their speed
· Project sharpness in voice and demeanor + Be sharp
· Want projects to look like a million dollars + Tell him/her how it will be done well and quickly
· Be controlling/take charge + Be firm
· Delegate to someone else or + Ask for decisions
· Make decisions on the spot/authoritative
· Act tough/may be cover-up for soft emotional side
High Extrovert Individuals Will: With High Extrovert Individuals I Will:
· Show emotion in voice + Recognize & approve of them in any way possible
· Be friendly + Acknowledge their status
· Find it hard to say no, so may make excuses + Promote the favorable environment
· Keep asking more questions + Provide many ideas & possibilities for discussion
· Not keep on topic, unless they want something + Demonstrate how the team can be involved
· Be polite + Say how appreciative you are for his/her time
· Help you along + Not reject or isolate them in any way
· Be interested in the environment (looks good) + Not be harsh or insulting even when joking
· Be interested in the entertainment part + Make friendly comments
· Like a bit of glitz + Laugh and have fun with them
· Be social and talkative + Present things as a benefit to his/her people
· Be open and optimistic + Give visibility to prospect
· Want things to be positive for people + Show how he/she will look good by buying your idea
· Possibly defer decision + Talk about other topics/family, hobbies
· Be a people pleaser, don’t want to disappoint you
· Be trusting of you, unless they have negative information
· Be persuasive with you
· Laugh and have fun with you
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High Patience Individuals Will: With High Patience Individuals I Will:
· Be skeptical of sales people + Focus on the benefits
· Won’t say much + Tell them how it will create harmony/no conflict
· Listen and let you talk + Go slowly over details
· Not see themselves making a decision + Pause and give time for thinking and processing
· Buy from whom their friends buy from + Give time limits for small decisions and final ones
· Wait and see + Give clear goals, expectations, directions, priorities
· Ask for references + Not create unjustified pressure (they won’t buy)
· Want proof of product + Not create sudden changes(they hate that)
· Make you work very hard (many calls) + Not create conflicts (they avoid conflict)
· Ask, “Who have you worked for?” + Always be sincere
· Say, “That sounds nice.” + Speak carefully and non-confrontational
· Be casual and careful + Be tolerant
· Not push themselves + Be understanding of their “wait and see attitude”
· Not get excited/show emotion + Understand when they finally make a decision,
· They want to know something about you they want an immediate response from me
· Want to trust you first before buying + Understand if they appear anxious, it is due to
· Not want any exaggeration or pushing too many things they are working on at once
· Not want to be put on the spot + Give time to think about and process need for
· Seem easy going/slow in speech and movement change
· Be likeable + Present things as fair and reasonable
· Be focused + Adhere to agreed on agendas/time frames
· Be rhythmic and methodical + Use a calm and cooperative approach
High Conformity Individuals Will: With High Conformity Individuals I Will:
· Question you carefully + Provide structure and accuracy
· Be very polite + Show the security of the product
· Be all business + Show proven systems, referrals, written materials
· Want you to use facts that have been proven + Speak conscientiously/articulate
· Speak distinctly + Appear cautious and thorough
· Be skeptical in words and body language + Show concern
(raise eyebrows, frown, hand on chin + Present ideas in detail, correctly and in order
or cheeks to hide self) + Not criticize in any way prospect or his/her thinking
· Ask questions, if interested + Give sincere praise and acknowledge respect
· Want referrals for prospect
· Be interested in pricing + Give written guidelines and frequent updates
· Be formal and proper + Not propose high risk ideas
· Want everything to be predictable + Give very clearly defined directions and processes
· Want less expensive + Give assurance that someone dependable and
· Want refunds , guarantees trustworthy is in charge
· Will point out “what might go wrong” + Clearly justify any reasons for criticism
· Want things done right – will use the word + Use the wording, “Have you ever thought of___”
“right” often + Be proper and very polite
· Want things done according to their rules + Ask,” What questions do you have?”
· Want things precise, exact and accurate + Keep their interest with “good value pricing”
· Want to double check work and decisions + Avoid anything that might indicate to them that
· Want systems used – refer to rules/policy things aren’t “right”
· Require a chain of command + Say, “this is the right thing or right way to do it”
· Bury you with facts + Use factual words (outcomes, profits, results, proof)
Copyright: 2002 Syntrak International, Colorado Springs, CO. USA Contact: Nancy Kelly 719-599-9272