The Power of Empathy, Part One
So glad you are here!
Our topic in this month’s Online Parenting Class is The Power of Empathy. Children are not naturally empathetic, but that doesn’t mean it is not something they can’t learn. Empathy is different than sympathy. Sympathy expresses concern for people while remaining at a distance. Empathy requires a person imagine themselves as the other person.
The word “empathy” isn’t used in the Bible, but there are plenty of verses that speak to empathetic concern for others. For example, the psalmist wrote that God empathized with the people He created: “As a father has compassion on his children, so the LORD has compassion on those who fear him; for he knows how we are formed, he remembers that we are dust (Psalm 103:13–14).
Jesus was also empathetic—expressing deep compassion and concern for others. Consider just three verses that show His sensitivity to people:
When he saw the crowds, he had compassion on them. — Matthew 9:36
When Jesus landed and saw a large crowd, he had compassion on them and healed their sick. — Matthew 14:14
When Jesus saw her weeping, and the Jews who had come along with her also weeping, he was deeply moved in spirit and troubled. —John 11:33, 35
When Jesus arrived at the tomb where His friend Lazarus had been buried, Scripture says “Jesus wept” (John 11:35). Clearly, Jesus experienced deep emotions toward people.
If Jesus felt such empathy for others, and if as parents we are striving to help our children become more and more like Him as they grow into young adults, then one of the best things we can do is teach them empathy. Our next email will give some practical ideas for how to do this.
I’m praying for you as you press on and stand firm in this dark world. I have many resources available if you need more information or counsel. We are on this crazy parenting journey together!
Parenting with you,
Pastor Barb