Dua'a for Getting Married

Dua'a for getting married

CHOOSING A MUSLIM WIFE/HUSBANDNew

MATRIMONIAL AFFAIRS (i) PROPOSAL OF MARRIAGE

Inspite of growing up to the age of sexual maturity, if a boy or a girl has not received a suitable offer of marriage, recite surah al Ahzaab (chapter 33) regularly. Inshallah, soon he or she will be married.

If a gown up girl is not received any offer of marriage recite surah al Mumtahinah (chapter 60) five times daily, Inshallah, soon she will be married.

If a grown up girl is not receiving any offer of marriage recite surah at Taha (chapter 20) and blow breath on a glass of water and let the girl drink it. Inshallah, soon she will be married.

If a grown up girl is not receiving an offer of marriage, recite verse 36 of Yasin 100 times before salat of tehajjud for 40 days, inshallah soon she will be married.

SUBH'AANALLAD'EE KHALAQAL AZWAAJA KULLAHAA MIMMAA TUMBITUL ARZ'U WA MIN ANFUSIHIM WA MIMMAA LAA YA'LAMOON

It is written in Biharul Anwar that to invoke the almighty Allah that a grown up boy or a girl be suitably married carry out the following a'mal of du-a'a of Mashlul

(i) Recite du-a'a al Mashlul (see selected Soorahas and Du-a'as volume one and two) preferably after Fajr salat or any obligatory salat for 40 consecutive days.

(ii) Do not eat animal flesh

(iii) Always remain the state of Ablution

(iv) Wear Ihram dress at the time of reciting the du-a'a

Dua'a 181

To invoke the almighty Allah that a grown up boy or a girl be suitably married, recite the following du-a'a after giving gifts to the deserving mumin brothers or sisters.

“O Causer of the Causes; O He who opens the doors (to opportunities); O’ He who gives an answer to the call from wherever (He is called).” /

Yaa Musabbibal Asbaabi Yaa Mufattihal Abwaabi Yaa Man Haythu Maa Du-ee-Ya Ajaaba

Dua'a 182

According to Biharul Anwar to invoke the almighty Allah that a grown up boy or girl be suitably married recite the following du-a'a 100 times daily for 40 consecutive days after any obligatory salat.

“Make easy (my difficulties), by Your superabundant favours, O’ the Most Mighty.” /

Sahlam Bi Fadhlika Yaa `Azeez

Dua'a 183

It is written in Bihar al Anwar that if a grown up girl is not receiving any offer of marriage, her father should pray a 2 rak-at salat (like Fajr salat) on Friday after Jumu-ah prayers and after the salam go into Sajdah and recite surah al Muzzammil (chapter 73) 21 times. Inshallah very soon she will be married to a suitable man.

Dua'a 184

It is written in Biharul Anwar to write the following portion of verse 132 of at Ta Ha on a paper with the solution of musk, saffron and rose water and bind it as a Ta'wid on the right arm, if a man desires to be married soon. Bind another Ta'wid like above on the right arm of the man or woman who is negotiating the proposal of marriage.

“It is We who give you sustenance, and the good of the hereafter is for those who have Allah consciousness and guard themselves against evil.” /

Nahnu Narzuquka wal `Aaqibatu Lit-Taqwa

Dua'a 185

It is written in Kanzul Maknun to write the following du-a'a on a paper like a Ta'wid and bind it on the right arm of the grown up girl who is not receiving any offer of marriage. Inshallah, soon she will be married.

As there is ismi a'z'am in this du-a'a, it should be removed during menses.

O Light of everything which guides them, You are He who cuts asunder darkness with His light. /

YAA NOORA KULLI SHAY-INWA HUDAAHU ANTALLAD'EE FALAQAZ' Z'ULUMAATI BINOORUHOO

Dua'a 186

According to Imam Jafar bin Muhammad as Sadiq, it is written in Biharul Anwar, whoever desires to marry should recite the following du-a'a before making a formal request for marriage.

“O’ Allah! I desire to marry, so arrange for me a woman from those who willingly abstain from what is unlawful and who safeguards her soul for my sake and because of her, not only my means of sustenance will increase, but also make there be in it abundance and also make it sure that she will give me a virtuous son, who will be a noble successor in my life and after my death.” /

Allahumma Innee Urreedu An Atazawwaja Faqaddir Lee Minan Nisaa-I A’fihunna Farjajan wa Ah’fadh’ihunna Lee Fee Nafsihaa Wa Awsa-i-Hunna Lee Rizwan Wa A-dhamahunna Lee Barakatan Fee Nafsihaa Wa Maaleee Faqaddir Lee Minhaa Waladan Tayyiban Tajaluhoo Khalafan Saalihan Fee Hayaatee Wa Ba`da Mawtee.

Dua'a 187

It is written in Biharul Anwar that if unmanageable impediments are obstructing your marriage write the following verses (Ta Ha: 131, 132) with saffron and keep it on the body. Inshallah all hindrances will disappear.

“Nor strain your eyes in longing for the things We have given for enjoyment to parties of them, the splendour of the life of this world, through which We test them: but the provision of thy Lord is better and more enduring. And enjoin prayer on your family, and be constant therein. We ask you not to provide sustenance: We provide it for you. But the (fruit of) the Hereafter is for righteousness.” /

Wa Laa Tamuddanna Aynayka Ilaa Maa Matta`-Naa Bihee Azwaajam Minhum Zahratal Hayaatid Dunyaa Linaftinahum Feeh Wa Rizqu Rabbika Kharyuw Wa Abqaa. Wa`mur Ahlaka Bis Salaati Wastabir Alayhaa Laa Nas- Aluka Rizqaa Nahnu Narzuquk Wal A`aqibatu Littaqwaa.

Dua'a 188

It is written in Biharul Anwar that Imam Muhammad bin Ali al Baqir said :

"After Nikah (marriage) when the bride and bridegroom come into their house, both should pray a two rakat salat. Then they should say salawat and all those who have come with them should also say salawat and amin. Then the bridegroom should recite the following du-a'a

O my Allah, bless me with her love, friendship and readiness to please (me). Let me also be always ready to please her. Keep us together and let it be the best togetherness, and let us always compensate each other easily; verily, You like the lawful and dislike the unlawful. /

ALLAAHUMMAR-ZUQNEE ULFATAHAA WA WUDDAHAA WA RIZ'AAHAA WAR-Z'INEE BIHAA WAJMA'BAYNANAA BI-AH'SANIJ - TIMAA-I'NAA AYSARI-TILAAFIN FA-INNAKA TUH'IBBUL H'ALAALA WA TUKRIHUL H'ARAAMA

Dua's for Good Matrimonial Relationship

To create or develop love / To remove misunderstanding
To remove discord and separation / To make your wife love you and obey you
To create and develop love and affection / If Husband is displeased with wife
If there is discord after marriage / If husband is taking interest in another woman
To make a bad tempered and wicked husband docile and gentle
Husband/Wife relation article

To create or develop love between man and wife

Dua'a 189

Recite Surah Yasin 7 times and every time blow breath through the palm of the right hand on 7 almonds separately and give them to your spouse for eating all of them.

Dua'a 190

BISMILLAHIR RAHMAN NIR RAHIM 786 times on a glass of clean (pure) water and give it to your spouse for drinking.

Dua'a 191

Recite Surah An-Nisa 7 times a day.

Dua'a 192

Surah al Quraysh (chapter 106) on roses and both of them should smell them.

Dua'a 193

Recite (AL WADOODU) 1000 times and every time blow breath through the palm of the right hand on some sweet eatables and both should eat it.

Dua'a 194

Recite Surah al Muzzammil (chapter 73) 41 times and every time blow breath through the palm of the right hand on some sweet eatables and give it to your spouse to eat.

Dua'a 197

Recite the following du-a'a (verse 31 of Aali Imran) 3 times and every time blow breath through the palm of the right hand on a glass of pure water and give it to your spouse to drink.

Say (O Muhammad): “If you love Allah, then follow me: Allah will love you and forgive you your sins, verily. Allah is forgiving merciful."
QUL IN KUNTUM TUH'IBBOONALLAAHA FATTABI-O'ONEE YUH'BIBKUMULLAAHU WA YAGHFIR LAKUM D'UNOOBAKUM WALLAAHU GHAFOORURU RAH'EEM. /

Dua'a 200

Recite verse 32 of Sad on some sweet eatables and give it to both of them to eat during a period of 7 days.

He said: “Verily I have loved the love of (earthly) good above the rememberance of my Lord until (the sun) was hidden in the veil (of night).”
(FAQAALA) INNEEE AH'BABTU H'UBBAL KHAYRI A'N D'IKRI RABBEE H'ATTAA TAWAARAT BIL H'IJAAB /

Dua'a 207

Recite verse 83 of Yasin on some sweet eatables and give it to both of them to eat. Inshallah very soon they will come very close to each other.

Therefore glory be o Him in whose hand in the kingdom of all things. Unto Him you will all return.
There is no might nor strength with (any one) save Allah, the high, the great.
FASUBH'AANALLAD'EE BIYADIHEE MALAKOOTU KULLI SSHAY-IWWA ILAYHI TURJA-O'ON
WA LAA H'AWLA WA LAA QUWWATA ILLAA BILLAHIL A'LIYYIL A'Z'EEM /

Dua'a 208

Recite verse 40 of Ahzab on some fragrant flowers or eatables and give it to your spouse to smell or eat.

Muhammad is not the father of any man among you, but a messenger of Allah, and the seal of the prophets. Allah is the knower of all things.
MAA KAANA MUH'AMMADUN ABAAA AH'ADIM MIR RIJAALIKUM WA LAAKIR RASOOLALLAAHI WA KHATAMAN NABIYEEN WA KAANALLAAHU BIKULLI SHAY-IN A'LEEMAA /

Dua'a 209

As directed in Biharul Anwar, take an egg (hen) clean it and write verse 128 of al Bara-at on it with the name of your spouse. Enclose the egg in a pot with a cover and bury it under the earth where fire burns everyday. Inshallah the spouse will come very close to you. If there has been a separate, an immediate reconciliation will take place.

Indeed a messenger from among you has come to you. Any distress that befalls you grieves him, (he is) most kind and merciful to the believers.
LAQAD JAAA-AKUM RASOOLUM MIN ANFUSIKUM A'ZEEZUN A'LAYHI MAA A'NITTUM H'AREES'UN
A'LAYKUM BILMOOMINEENA RA-OOFUR RAH'EEM /

Dua'a 210

It is written in Biharul Anwar that in order to create love between man and wife write the names of Ashab al kahf (the people of the cave) and then the name of your spouse with her or his mother's or father's name and wear it as a ta'wid on the right arm.

The names of seven sleepers (followers of Prophet Isa) in Christian books are as under :

Constantine

Dionysius

John

Malchus

Martinian

Maximiam

Serapion

According to Hafiz Farman Ali Sahib they were six and the seventh was a dog. Their names are given below :

Kimsilmina

Martunus

Sarnivilus

NinivanusTmlikha

Wariwanus

Dua'a 216

To create love between man and wife (who is showing signs of indifference)

(i) Write Surah as Zukhruf (chapter 43) on a plate of China Clay and wash it with pure water and give it to the wife to drink.

Or

(ii) The aggrieved husband should recite Surah al Jumu-a'h (chapter 62) 5 times a day

Or

(iii) Keep the written text of the said Surah on the body as a tawid

Or

(iv) The aggrieved husband should recite Ayat al Kursi (see du-a'a 39 ) equal in number of the total of his and his wife's name as per the rule of abjad.

Or

(v) He should wear the written text of Ayat ul Kursi as a tawid on his body.

To remove misunderstanding and discord and instead create love and understanding between man and wife

(1)

Recite Surah Jumah (chapter 62) on Friday and invoke the Almighty Allah to fulfill your desire.

(2)

Recite (AL MAANI-U) The Preventer as many times as possible.

(3)

Recite the following portion of verse 54 of al Ma-idah on some sweet eatables and let both of them eat it.

He loves them and who love Him, humble towards the believers, mighty against the infidels.
UH'IBBUHUM WA YUH'IBBOONAHOOO AD'ILLATIN A'LAL MOOMINEENA A-I'ZZATIN A'LAL KAAFIREEN /

To remove discord and separation between man and wife and to bring themselves in to harmony again

One of them should recite the following du'a on some fresh fragrant flowers with full concentration and send them to the other spouse for smelling them.

Say 11 times - O my Allah, send blessings on Muhammad and on the progeny of Muhammad.
Then say - Allah is He whose help is to be sought against what you describe. O my helper. O my affectionate Lord, save me from every anguish.
Then say 11 times : O my Allah, send blessings on Muhammad and on the progeny of Muhammad.
ALLAAHUMMA S'ALLI A'LAA MUH'AMMADIN WA AALI MUHAMMAD.
WALLAHUL MUSTA-A'ANU A'LAA MAA TAS'IFOON YAA RAFEEQU YAA SHAFEEQU NAJJINEE MIN KULLI Z'EEQIN
ALLAHUMMA S'ALLI A'LAA MUH'AMMADIN WA AALI MUH'AMMAD /

Recite the following verses 29 and 30 of surah Yusuf on some sweet eatables and let both the husband and wife eat themto remove discord that has made their life miserable.

(Al Aziz said:) “Ignore this affair, O Yusuf; and you (O my wife) ask forgiveness for your sin; verily you have been of the guilty.” And the women in the city said: “The wife of al Aziz (nobleman of high rank) seeks to seduce here page from his (pure) self. Verily he has inflamed her with violent love. Verily we see her in manifest error.”
YOOSUFU A'RIZ A'N HAAD'AA WASTAGHFIREE LID'AMBIKI INNAKA FUNTI MINAL KHAAT'I-EEN WA QAALA NISWATUN FIL MADEENATIMRA-ATUL A'ZEEZI TURAAWIDU FATAAHAA A'N NAFSIH QAD SHAGHAFAHAA H'UBBAA INNAA LANARAAHAA FEE Z'ALAALIM MUBEEN /

According to Biharul Anwar to create love and understanding between husband and wife, if they are drifting from each other, recite a 2 rakat salat after Isha, at any time during the night, on Monday. In each rakat, after the recitation of al Fatihah, recite surah ad Duha (chapter 93) 10 times, and after the salam recite the following dua 25 times.

ALLAAHUMMA AH'ABBANEE ILAA QALBI /

To make your wife love you and obey you

Recite Surah al Wadr (chapter 97) and while reciting, keep her hair on the forehead in your hand.

To create and develop love and affection between man and wife

Dua'a 203

O my Allah, send blessings on Muhammad and on the children of Muhammad
H'aa meem ayn seen qaaf
Ya Sin. By the Quran, the book of wisdom.
Nun. By the pen and by what they write.
You alone we worship and from You alone we seek help.
O my Allah, send blessings on Muhammad and on the children of Muhammad.
ALLAAHUMMA S'ALLI A'LAA MUH'AMMADIN WA AALI MUH'AMMAD
H'AA MEEM AYN SEEN QAAF
YAA SEEN WAL QURAANILH'AKEEM
NOON WAL QALAMI WA MAA YAST'UROON
IYYAAKA NA-BUDUWA IYYAAKA NASTA-EEN
S'ALLALLAAHU A'LAA KHAYRI KHALQIHEE MUH'AMMADIN WA AALIHEE AJMA-E'EN LIH'UBBI (name of husband with his mother) A'LAA H'UBBI (name of wife with her mother)
ALLAHUMMA S'ALLI A'LAA MUH'AMMADIN WA AALI MUH'AMMAD. /

(i) Recite 14 times :

O my Allah, send blessings on Muhammad and on the children of Muhammad.

ALLAHUMMA S'ALLI A'LAA MUH'AMMADIN WA AALI MUH'AMMAD.

(ii)

H'AA MEEM AYN SEEN QAAF

(iii)

Ya Sin, By the Quran, the book of wisdom.

YAA SEEN WAL QURAANIL H'AKEEM

(iv)

Nun. By the pen and by what they write.

Noon Wal Qalami Wa Maa Yast'uroon

(v)

You alone we worship and from You alone we seek help.

Iyyaaka na'-Budu wa iyyaaka nasta-e'en

(vi) Say :

Blessings of Allah be on Muhammad and on his children, all of whom are the best creation among His all creations; for the purpose of (creation) love (in the heart of (name of husband with his mother) for (name the wife with her mother).

S'allallaahu A'laa khayri khalqihee muh'ammadin wa aalihee ajma-e'en lih'ubbi (name of husband with his mother) A'laa H'ubbi (name of wife with her mother)

(vii) Recite 14 times :

O my Allah, send blessings on Muhammad and on the children of Muhammad.

ALLAHUMMA S'ALLI A'LAA MUH'AMMADIN WA AALI MUH'AMMAD.

Recite the following verse 96 of Maryam on some sweet eatables and give it to both of them to eat. Inshallah they will come close to each other very soon.

Verily those who believe and do good deeds, ARRAHMAN will appoint for them love.
INNALLAD'EENA AAMANOO WA A'MILUS S'AALIH'AATI SAYAJ -A'LU LAHUMUR RAH'MAANU WUDDAA /

Recite following verses (last portion of 62 and 63 of Anfal) on some sweet eatables and give it to both of them to eat. Inshallah there will be a positive result very soon.

It is He who strengthened you with His help and with the believers.
He has put affection between their hearts. Had you spent all that is in the earth you could not have put affection between their hearts, but Allah put affection between them; verily He is mighty, wise.
HUWALLAD'EEE AYYADAKA BINAS'RIHEE WA BIL MOOMINEEN
WA ALLAFA BAYNA QULOOBIHIM LAW ANFAQTA MAA FIL ARZ'I JAMEE-AM MAAA ALLAFTA BAYNA QULOOBIHIM WA LAAKINNALLAAHA ALLAFA BAYNAHUM INNAHOO A'ZEEZUN H'AKEEM /

According to Biharul Anwar to create and develop love between man and wife, after marriage, if there is discord and misunderstanding, write verses 9 to 14 of Az Zukhruf on 4 pages and bury these 4 pages separately in four corners of the house (One page in every corner)

If you ask them: “Who created the heavens and the earth?”
They will certainly say: ‘The all-mighty, the all-knowing created them.’
He who made the earth for you as a cradle, and laid out paths upon it for you so that you may be rightly guided.
Who sends down water from the heaven in due measure; then We raise to life with it a land which was dead-so shall We bring you forth (from your graves on the day of resurrection).
He who created pairs of every thing and made for you ships and cattle on which you ride,
So that (when) you sit firm and square on their backs, and remember the bounty of your Lord, and when so seated, you may say: “Glory be to Him who subjected these to us, because we were not able to do so ourselves.
Verily we shall return to our Lord.”
WA LA-IN SA-ALTAHUM MAN KHALAQAS SAAMAAWAATI WAL ARZ'A LAYAQOOLUNNA KHALAQAHUNNAL A'ZEEZUL A'LEEM
ALLAD'EE JA-A'LA LAKUMUL ARZ'A MAHDAW WA JA-A'LA LAAAKUM FEEHAA SUBULAL LA-A'LLAKUM TAHTADOON
WALLAD'EE NAZZALA MINAS SAMAAA-I MAAA-AM BIQADAR FA-ANSHARNAA BIHEE BALDATAM MAYTAA KAD'AALIKA TUKHRAJOON
WALLAD'EE KHALQAL AZWAAJA KULLAHAA WAA JA-A'LA LAKUM MINAL FULKI WAL AN-A'AMI MAA TARKABOON LITASTAWOO AAAAA'LAA Z'UHOORIHEE THUMMA TAD'KUROO NI-MATA RABBIKUM ID'AS - TAWAYTUM A'LAYHI WA TAQOOLOO SUBH'AANAL LAD'EE SAKHKHARA LANAA HAAD'AA SUBH'AANAL LAD'EE SAKHKHARA LANAA HAAD'AA WA MAA KUNNAA LAHOO MUQRINEEN WA INAAA ILAA RABBINAA LAMUNQALIBOON /

It is written in Biharul Anwar that in order to create love between man and wife write verse 63 of al Anfal and verse 7 of al Mumtahinah with saffron on a piece of paper after praying a 2 rakat salat on Sunday wash it with pure water and both of them should drink it for 7 days.