The Bargain by Sir Philip Sidney

My true love hath my heart and I have his,

By just exchange, one for the other given,

I hold his dear, and mine he cannot miss;

There never was a better bargain driven;

My true love hath my heart and I his.

His heart in me keeps him and me in one,

My heart in him his thoughts and senses guides;

He loves my heart; for once it was his own,

I cherish his because in me it bides;

My true love hath my heart, and I have his.

The First Day by Christina Rossetti

I wish I could remember the first day.

First hour, first moment of your meeting me;

If bright or dim the season, it might be

Summer or winter for aught I can say.

So unrecorded did it slip away,

So blind was I to see and to forsee,

So dull to mark the budding of my tree.

That would not blossom for many a May.

If only I could recollect it!

Such a day of days! I let it come and go

As traceless as a thaw of bygone snow.

It seemed to mean so little, meant so much!

If only now I could recall that touch,

First touch of hand in hand! -Did one but know!

If I can make you cry by Paul Williams

If I can make you cry

If I can make you fill with pleasure

Just by holding you

In the early hours of the morning

When the day that lies ahead’s

Not quite begun.

If I can make you smile

If I can move you close

To laughter with a word or two

When your day’s been filled with strangers

And the castles that you build

All tumble down.

Oh well, that’s enough for me

That’s all the hero I need to be

I smile to think of you and me

You and I

And how our pleasures make you cry

Love by Guy De Maupassant

It is a short word, but it contains all:

It means the body, the soul, the life, the entire being.

We feel it as we feel the warmth of the blood,

We carry it in ourselves as we carry our thoughts.

Nothing more exists for us.

It is not a word; it is an inexpressible state indicated

by four letters

Feeling Safe

Oh, the comfort, the inexpressible comfort, of

Feeling safe with a person;

Having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words,

But pour them all out, just as they are, chaff and

Grain together.

Knowing that a faithful hand will take and sift

Them,

Keep what is worth keeping an then – with the

Breath of kindness –

Blow the rest away.

The key to Love

The key to love is understanding…

The ability to comprehend

Not only the spoken word,

But those unspoken gestures,

The little things that say

So much by themselves.

The key to love is forgiveness…

To accept each other’s faults

And pardon mistakes,

Without forgetting –

But with remembering

What you learn from them.

The key to love is trust…

Though dark doubts

Lie in hollowed thoughts,

It must shine brightly on

With reassuring radiance

That suppresses fear with faith.

The to key to love is sharing…

Facing your good fortunes

As well as the bad, together,

Both conquering problems

Forever searching for ways

To intensify your happiness.

The key to love is giving….

Without thought of return,

But with hope of just a simple smile

And giving-in, but never up.

The key to love is respect….

Realising that you are two separate people

With different ideas;

That doesn’t belong to each other,

But belong with each other

And share a mutual bond.

The key to love is inside us all…

It takes time and patience

To unlock all the ingredients

That will take you to its threshold;

It is a continual learning process

That demands lots of work…

But the rewards are more than

Worth the effort…and you is the key to me.


From the I Ching

When two people are at one in their

Inmost hearts, they shatter even the

Strength of iron or bronze. And when

Two people understand each other in

Their inmost hearts, their words are

Sweet and strong like the fragrance

of orchids.

Keres Indian song

I add my breath to your breath

That our days may be long in the earth

That the days of our people may be long

That we may be one person

That we may finish our roads together.


Love by Roy Croft

I love you

Not only for what you are

But for what I am with you.

I love you,

Not only what you have made of yourself,

But for what you are making of me.

I love you

For putting your hand into my heaped-up

Heart

And passing over all the foolish, weak things

That you can’t help dimly seeing there,

And for drawing out into the light

All the beautiful belongings

That no one else had looked

Quite far enough to find

I love you because you

Are helping me to make

Of the lumber of my life

Not a tavern, but a temple;

Out of the works

Of my every day

Not a reproach

But a song.

I love you

Because you have done

More than any creed

Could have done

To make me good,

And moore than any fate

Could have done

To make me happy.

You have done it

Without a touch,

Without a word,

Without a sign.

You have done it by being yourself

Perhaps that is what

Being a friend means, after all

Unhurried Days

While unhurried

Days come and go,

Let us turn to each other in

Quiet affection, walk in peace to the

Edge of old age

Long Marriages

Oh, the head that lies on the pillow-

Twenty, thirty, forty years.

The hair that was brown goes grey,

Then white.

But all the time the love increases.

To see the head they’re all those years

Is itself a charm against the things?

Of night!

Together

We have lived and loved together

Through many changing years,

We have shared each other’s gladness

And wept each other’s tears.

And let us hope the future,

As the past has been will be:

I will share with thee my sorrows,

And thou thy joys with me.

Sonnet 116

Let me not to the marriage if true minds admit impediments.

Love is not love which alters when it alteration finds,

Or beds with the remover to remove:

O, no! It is an ever-fixed mark.

That looks on tempest and is never shaken;

It is the star to every wandering bark,

Whose worth’s unknown, although his height be taken.

Love’s not Time’s fool, though rosy lips and cheeks

Within his bending sickle’s compass come;

Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,

But bears it out even to the edge of doom.

If this be error and upon me prov’d,

I never writ, nor no man ever lov’d.

Marriage- Mark Twain

A marriage…. makes of two fractional lives

A whole, it gives to two purposeless lives

A work, and doubles the strength

Of each to perform it,

It gives to two questioning natures

A reason for living, and something to live for;

A new fragrance to the flowers,

A new beauty to the earth,

And a new mystery to life.

Thy Love by Anne Bradstreet

If ever two were one, then surely we.

If ever man were lov’d by wife, then thee:

If ever wife was happy in a man,

Compare with me ye woman if you can,

I prize thy love more than whole mines of gold,

Or all the riches that the east doth hold.

My love is such that rivers cannot quench,

Nor ought but love from thee, give recompense.

Thy love is such I can no way repay,

The heavens reward thee manifold I pray.

Then while we live, in love lets so preserve,

That when we live no more, we may live ever.

Margaret Lawrence to Benedict Greene

I think that never in a thousand letters could I ever begin to tell you what it means to be able to some home to you.

I never realised how starved I was for this deep wonderful sweetness, a small place where my love lives which he gives to me as my own and tells me is mine.

It’s a symbol of the sweetness and the peace I know with you.

It’s made up of all our hours together – the hours of the days and nights we have had together.

It means music to me, and the blessing of good food, preparing it for you and me to eat together.

It means the talking one can only do with one’s dearest, closest, oldest friend and the silences one falls onto only with this friend.

It means all the happy things done together, and work that suddenly become play because it has been shared with a friend and lover.

Let Them by George Bruce

Let the young make up their love songs,

On which subject they are securely ignorant.

Let them look into eyes that mirror themselves.

Let them groan and ululate their desire into a microphone.

Let them shout into their proclamations over the tannoy

-A whisper is enough for us.

Quiet Thoughts by Hugh Prather

The quiet thoughts

Of people a long time in love

Touch lightly

Likes birds nesting in each other’s warmth

You will know them by their laughter

But to each other they speak mostly through their solitude

If they find themselves apart

They may dream of sitting undisturbed

In each other’s presence

Of wrapping themselves warmly

In each other’s easy

A Union

There is nothing more lovely in life than the union of two people whose love for one another has grown through the years from the small acorn of passion to a great rooted tree.

Surviving all vicissitudes, and rich with its many difficulties branches,

Every leaf holding its own significance.

Marriage Is

Someone to believe in

And to put their trust in you

Someone who appreciates

The special things you do,

Someone to be close to,

In your heart and mind,

Someone who’s the love

You might have thought you’d never fing,

Someone who stands by you

And who’s faith can make you strong,

Someone you will cherish

Every day, your whole life long.

By Emily Matthews

The Meaning of True Love

It is sharing and caring, giving and forgiving,

Loving and being loved, walking hand in hand,

Talking heart to heart, seeing through each other’s eyes,

Laughing together, weeping together,

Being together, always trusting

And believing in each other….

For love that is shared is a beautiful thing-

It enriches the soul and makes the heart sing !

(Helen Steiner Rice)

As A True Heart

Accept my love, as a true heart

As ever lover gave:

‘tis free, it vows, from any art,

and proud to be your slave.

Then take it kindly, as was meant,

And let the giver live,

Who, with it, would be world have sent,

Had it been his to give.

(Matthew Prior)

From Captain Corelli’s Mandolin by Louis de Bernieres

Love is temporary madness, it erupts like volcanoes

and then subsides. And when it subsides

you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part.

Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of eternal passion…..

That is just being “in love”, which any fool can do.

Love itself is what is left over

when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art

and a fortunate accident.

Those that truly love have roots that grow towards each other,

Underground, and when all the pretty blossoms have fallen from their branches, they find that they are one tree and not two.

WHAT IS A SOULMATE?

If you have found a smile

That is the sweetest one you’ve known

If you have heard within a voice

The echoes of your own

If you have felt a touch

That stirs the longing of your heart

And still can feel that closeness

In the moments you’re apart.

If you have filled with wonder

At the way two loves can blend

To weave a perfect pattern

That is seamless end to end

If you believe some things in life

Are simply meant to be,

Then you have found your soul-mate,

Your heart’s own destiny.

Wherever I am, there’s always Pooh,

There’s always Pooh and me,

Whatever I do, he wants to do,

“Where are you going today”? Says Pooh,

“Well that’s very odd ‘cos I was too.

“Let’s go together” says Pooh says he

“Lets go together” says Pooh……

So wherever I am, there’s always Pooh.

There’s always POOH AND ME.

“What would I do”? I said to Pooh

“If it wasn’t for you.” And pooh said

“True, it isn’t much fun for one,

But two can stick together”, sys Pooh, says he.

“That’s how it is”, says Pooh

WHAT IS LOVE

Sooner or later we begin to understand that love is more than verses on valentines and romance in the movies. We begin to know that love is here and now, real and true, the most important thing in our lives. For love is the creator of our favourite memories and the foundation of our fondest dreams. Love is a promise that is always kept, a fortune that can never be spent, a seed that can flourish in the most unlikely of places. And this radiance that never fades, this mysterious and magical joy is the greatest treasure of all – one known only by those who love.