We was talk about “right and wrong” in social life before , and now let’s talk about the "right" and "wrong" in personal life.
We must to face the right and wrong in one's life. In real life, people often encounter seems to be right, but it is wrong; Or you think this is right thing, others are considered to be the wrong thing, which makes people's choice of things very puzzled, we don't know this "ticket" in the hands of a vote for who is right thing to do. This requires us to think seriously about “right and wrong”, make us in the journey of life more accurately grasp myself, so as not to go wrong..
The concept of "right" in personal life.
We often talk about "right" questions in personal life activities, for example, when we chat with others, we often say: "what do you think about he is doing (or said) today ,does he right? why? "And so on. So what is the "right" in our personal mind? For this problem, through the ages, different people have different views and opinions.
From the point of view of "tomorrow", Sue holmes said: " Tomorrow is the most dangerous enemy when we in industrious. Anyway don't put off things till tomorrow what should be done today , we must cultivate the habit of finish this part of the work tomorrow today. "Turgenev also said: "tomorrow, tomorrow, and tomorrow, people have this consolation, but we not sure when this“tomorrow”will send them to the grave ." In fact, this is to tell us as long as you are alive today, you should make full use of all the time today, finish needs to be done. there have other things need to do tomorrow, If blindly drag, then whether your youth or career will be passed with tomorrow. will accomplish nothing, because tomorrow is endless. But your life is limited.This requests us to a correct attitude to grasp tomorrow, believe that as long as you understand what it means to tomorrow, then your tomorrow will be "right", that is to say, you will be able to make the "right" choice, because you know what is the right’s "tomorrow", unlike some people around us.however, no efficiency, knew blindly to enjoy at leisure. they don't know now at leisure, will work hard in the future, "regret" already has any meaningat that time.
From the point of view of "beauty", Hume said, "beauty is not a property of the thing itself, it exists only in the viewer's heart, every a person's heart to see a different kind of beauty. The people feel ugly, another person may feel beautiful. Everyone should default it's own feeling, should also be asked not to dominate other people's feeling ". Rousseau said: "a woman can use cosmetics to make her a pushy, but if you want to get other people's love, also need to rely on her personality, real beauty is beautiful in herself, can appear in her eyes.” Hence, beauty is not absolute. Each person's eye is different, the result of the aesthetic is different, this requires his Angle to analyze from the external beauty, still pay attention to inner beauty. But both inner beauty and outer beauty, is not absolute, all changes with the change of time and environment. People's outer beauty will with the passage of time gradually lose, inner beauty as the change of the environment or consolidate, or the opposite. It also requires us to correctly grasp the beauty, as long as you made the right choice. The beauty of you forever, and with "right", because of your beauty so you are "right"; Also,the others agree with youbecause you "right".
Through the above analysis, we believe that in a certain sense, the "right" is everyone around with some of the things to contact or communication (This includes both entity, also include some thoughts on the concept).Within the minds of the people of a kind of laws and regulations allow range, accord with the behavior of their life values, the values for the specific scope and conditions, when the environment changes, the nature of the "right" is changing too. That is to say, no "right" is without any conditions, it is a kind of a dynamic process of change, with the environment and law of development of things.
The concept of "wrong" in personal life.
On the understanding of the "wrong" in our life is also have their own opinions, for example, "busy" the word is quite common in our normal life, we often hear someone say this: "oh, I'm busy these days, have no time, another day you call me again!" Some people think that this is raise themselves that their identity is high than others; Others believe the other side there are many things to deal with, others think it is a practice look down on people. Say so, often you think is the right in real life, and some people thinks wrong also.
As China has a old archaism, called "enough is as good as a feast“,there had a point used on “preserve one's health”.See, feel enough can make people happy or feel happy can make people feel enough. happy every day, the body will be good naturally. But this sentence to use on the human development is a big error, becausecontentment, easy for people to meet the status quo, content with now, no progress.Because contentment, people easy to give up struggle and efforts, will lose the powerof continue to climb the peak, low expectations.So, this requests us in the grasp of the "wrong", must be thoroughly comprehensive analysis of a problem, or you might never is the view of the thing wrong.For what is the problem of "wrong", we believe that the so-called "wrong" is to be in a specific environment, specific figures for reference, when one of the ideas or practices do not conform to the values of the other party or harm the interests of their own, for the latter, the former is wrong, but the current communication object changes, may translate into.That is to say, the "wrong" with "to" the same complex, there is no an absolute "wrong", position and values of different, inevitable differences to understand something.