- true love
- infatuation
- to fall in love
- Happy Valentine’s Day
- Will you be my Valentine?
- All’s fair in love and war
- The love of your life
- Something you love to do
- To break someone’s heart
- Puppy love
- If you are married or have a boyfriend/girlfriend, what do you plan to do this Valentine’s Day?
- If you are single, what do you plan to do this Valentine’s Day?
- Is Valentine’s Day celebrated in your culture? If not, do you have a similar holiday? What is it, and what do you do to celebrate?
- What are some things people commonly do on Valentine’s Day? (For instance, go out to dinner or buy flowers/chocolates etc.)
Love
- If you had to define love, what would you say it is?
- Do you have to have commitment in order to have true love?
- Do you have to have passion in order to have true love?
- Do you have to know God in order to have true love?
- What kinds of things is love NOT?
- Is it okay to be jealous if you love somebody? What kinds of jealousy are good, and what kinds are wrong?
What differences are there in the kinds of love shared between the following people:
- good friends
- someone who goes to help a stranger
- a person and God
- God’s love for us
- a married couple
- teenagers who are “in love”
- a pastor for his congregation
- a teacher for her class
- someone who loves doing a particular thing, like sports
Demonstrations of Love
What are some ways you can show love to:
- a friend?
- Your husband/wife?
- Your co-workers or colleagues at school?
- God?
- Parents?
- Children?
Copyright Kristin Chong, 2011.
Valentine’s Day
Sharon:Oh, man! Here comes Sherman. I hope he doesn’t ask me out on a date.
Lisa:I wouldn’t worry about it. Sherman hasn’t dated for years!
Sharon:Oh, oh. Here he comes. (SHERMAN ASKS LISA OUT.)
Lisa:You said yes? To Sherman? Why?
Sharon:I didn’t want to hurt his feelings.
Lisa:But you don’t really want to go out with him.
Sharon:He would have a broken heart! I’m not that cruel.
Lisa:It’s more cruel to raise his hopes and then break up with him.
Sharon:Okay, okay. You’re right. And anyway, I think he’s just infatuated with me – he doesn’t even know me.
Lisa:It’s puppy love.
Sharon:Yikes. Puppy love sure is hard to deal with.
Lisa:You’ve got that right. Well, I can’t say I love to tell people I won’t date them either…once I dated someone I didn’t like, too.
Sharon:Oh, good. I’m glad I’m not the only one.
Lisa:That’s for sure. Well, Sherman or no, I hope you have a Happy Valentine’s Day.
Sharon:You, too, Lisa!
Copyright Kristin Chong, 2011.