ADVICE FOR A GOLDEN AGE COUPLE

To the two who asked for advice for a “golden age couple”

  1. In getting to know one another, it is wise to proceed cautiously and slowly. It is important to not be starry eyed or living in a fantasy world. Even when we think that we do know someone well, most couples will tell you that it takes time for the fullness of a person and who they are to be truly known.
  2. If you do meet, be aware of your first reactions on meeting someone and be honest if it is not all that you hoped it to be. Our first reaction or gut reaction is often what tells us a lot.
  3. If you decide to spend time together, then do it in a group setting and in normal everyday situations before deciding if a relationship is in the offing.
  4. It is important to have really good boundaries in terms of physical contact—because it is easy to get to know some one physically before we even understand them emotionally and mentally and spiritually. This is especially so if you have been in a physical relationship before. Then it is all too easy for the energy to just flow in the direction that it is used to going.
  5. There is an interesting phenomenon called “transference” can happen when we get to know someone without actually meeting them over the phone or the internet. Therapists and counselors are quite familiar with this if they do phone counseling. Someone can hear a voice over the phone without a body attached to it that they can see. Then the mind and emotions make up the difference and they start to glamorize and fantasize that this person can meet all of their needs. Then the person become so taken by the other person and all that they appear to stand for or all that they have imagined them to be in their mind. It is as if we fill in the outline with our own imagination which may not have very much to do with reality. So it is easy to fall in love from a distance and to imagine that this person is all of these wonderful things without having the reality check of meeting them in the physical plane and dealing with the realities of the human limitations that we all wear.
  6. Take with a grain of salt others impressions of the two of you especially if they are overly positive. Other people love and want to see a “happy couple” and can transfer onto you their own desires and fantasies. Then again if a trusted and balanced individual tells you the opposite it may be worth listening.
  7. Stay very close to the ascended masters and your I AM Presence for guidance. Follow your heart and do not ignore your intuition.

It is evident that there is something happening between you now but do not try to read more into the relationship than it is. If there is a friendship and a prayer partnership, do not try to make out of it more than it is right now.

If it is meant to be more, then let that unfold on its own in God’s way and God’s timetable. Let it be what it is rather than imagine what it could be.

All will be revealed in the fullness of time.