GRADE 9 LESSON 36
ASSERTIVE VS. AGGRESSIVE COMMUNICATION
GRADE 9 LESSON 36
Time Required: 30-45 minutes
Content Standards:
AA.S.7 Students will acquire the knowledge, attitudes and interpersonal skills to help them understand and respect self and others.
Indicators (Students will…):
AA.PSD.9.7.07 Learn how to communicate effectively.
AA.PSD.9.7.08 Use effective communication skills.
GOAL: Students will understand the difference between “assertive”, “aggressive” and “passive” behaviors.Activity Statements:
Students will discuss and role-play “assertive,” “aggressive,” and “passive” behaviors.
Materials:
Handout 1 Assertive vs. Aggressive Behavior PDF file
Handout 2 Tips for Behaving More Assertively
Handout 3 Tips for Behaving Less Aggressively
Handout 4 Role Play Situations
Procedures:
1. Write the following definitions on the board:
a. Aggressive - boldly hostile
b. Assertive - persistently positive or confident.
c. Passive – persistently withholds comments
2. Ask students to give some examples of some aggressive vs. assertive vs. passive behaviors.
3. Divide students into groups of 3 or 4 students and ask them to review Handouts 1, 2 & 3 and give more examples of the above behaviors.
4. Distribute Handout 4 and ask students to role-play situations in which one person is aggressive, one person is assertive, and the other is passive.
5. Ask students to take notes on what they see and hear during the role-play using Handout 1 as a guide.
6. Encourage students to discuss the differences between aggressive and assertive behaviors of the students in the role-play.
Discussion:
1. Are you more assertive, aggressive or passive toward others?
2. How would you describe someone who is assertive?
3. How would you describe someone who is aggressive?
4. What are primary differences between being passive, aggressive and assertive?
Integrative Closing Statement:
Communication is the key to all successful relationships at school and in the workplace. Learning how to be assertive instead of aggressive or passive can improve communication and interpersonal skills, improve self esteem and increase your productivity at school and work.
Additional Resources:
http://www.mtstcil.org/skills/assert-intro.html
Extension Activities: Take the short on-line test to increase your awareness about assertive vs. aggressive vs. passive behaviors. Review other resources on the website to learn more about this topic.
No new activities this week.